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12 days post circumsision - frenulum feels tight (stapler method)

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Hi guys,

12 days ago I got circumsized using the stapler gun method.

Whenever I get erections they feel tight. pre-op my length was around 5.8 inches but now it's around 4.8-5 max. My frenulum also hurts a bit when I get erect, even though my frenulum never caused pain before the operation. Could it be because of the staples surrounding my frenulum? My question is, if I had no issues with my frenulum pre-op, is there a possibility that the circumcision somehow caused it to be tighter (and maybe too tight)? Thanks!

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xhardwarex

12 days is very early in the healing process. I'd urge you to give yourself some time to recover. I lost some length directly after my circumcision, but mine returned as things evened out. At this point erections are still traumatic to your healing, so I'd suggest you avoid them as much as possible. As I recall, it took a good 3 or 4 months for everything to normalize. I had a more traditional free-hand circ with stitches however.

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ramennoodles in reply to xhardwarex

Thanks! my doctor told me that erections might actually help in the recovery, is there truth to that? I try to avoid erections but when I am asleep and after waking up in the morning I cannot avoid them! haha

When did you first start masturbating and how painful was it from 1-10?

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xhardwarex in reply to ramennoodles

Well, if your doctor said they help, believe him. I know what you mean about the night time ones. The first week, I would be popped out of bed 2-3 times a night! I will say, after my circ, my frenulum was too tight and pulled down on the tip of my penis when I got an erection. After about six months, I had a second procedure to detach it and that helped tremendously. The recovery from that was much quicker and less painful, but definitely give yourself time to heal before you look at further revisions. How are you doing on sensitivity?

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ramennoodles in reply to xhardwarex

oh that's terrible! I really don't want to get another procedure done if possible. Was your frenulum already tight before the circumcision? Mine wasn't, but now it is, which confuses me. I will take your advice and wait a few months.

Sensitivity is okay. I can walk almost like normal and with ocassional stings here and there. Overall I can work and function but I'm taking it easy.

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xhardwarex in reply to ramennoodles

Annoyingly enough, mine wasn't tight before either. I'd actually requested the doctor remove it, but he didn't. Again, though the follow-up was basically nothing in comparison. Great to hear you're not having a bad recovery!

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ramennoodles in reply to xhardwarex

do you think it might be the scarline under the frenulum that made it tight? I am very scared of procedures down there (getting the circumcision was hard enough!) so I hope the tightness goes away. Quick question, after the circumcision, even though your frenulum was tight did it hurt to masturbate and have sex?

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xhardwarex in reply to ramennoodles

I think the doctor just botched that part of my circ. Again though, you won't have a true feel for the result for a couple of months - definitely not til after your staples are gone.

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xhardwarex in reply to ramennoodles

Out of curiosity, why were you circumcised?

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ramennoodles in reply to xhardwarex

I had problems in the past with minor infections so I got it removed. Also because of cosmetic purposes.

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xhardwarex in reply to ramennoodles

Same here - recurrent balanitis for me. Finally got tired of dealing with it. Wish I'd done this years ago.

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ramennoodles in reply to xhardwarex

well thanks for the response man! I'm glad it's worked out for you. I hope I can function sexually like normal in 6 weeks. cheers!

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roddythescot in reply to xhardwarex

It is a pity that your frenulum was not dealt with at the same time as your circumcision. After circumcision the frenulum is totally redundant as it no longer has a foreskin to act on, so it is desirable that it be removed along with the circumcision to avoid the possibility of needig a second procedure to remove it.

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MagicStick in reply to roddythescot

the frenulum is the most sensitive (pleasurable) part of the penis, removing it takes away your full pleasure experience

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xsevenx in reply to MagicStick

Agree. The frenulum is a wonder.

in reply to ramennoodles

around 2 weeks, erection indeed helped my dick expelling

staplers faster, except staplers on frenulum area.

had my first masturbation on night 18, with generous amount of lube glans rubbing onto palm only without touching the ring where the staplers used to be. a weird but enjoyable experience.

general advise: don't do it if it hurts, stop immediately on slight discomfort. as the owner of a cut penis, you should know your own penis better than anyone. know your penis, take a good care of it and all shall be good.

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ramennoodles in reply to

Thank you! I was also considering masturbation on just the tip, might give it a try during the 3rd week.

Might I ask if your frenulum felt tight after the circumcision? And when the staples fell off did the frenulum feel less tight and masturbation qas easier? Thanks!

in reply to ramennoodles

surgeon didn't touch my frenulum.

you might want to avoid rubbing against injured frenulum, it's a delicately problematic area that take extra time to heal.

remember, glans only. 😉

better safe than sorry.

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ramennoodles in reply to

Yes same here, my frenulum is intact but feels tight after circumcision which is weird haha

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don't worry, must be the stapler below it.

tightness means the area is being stretched by erection. stretching is not a bad thing, but do stop if it begins to hurt.

btw, I have to remind you to avoid self pleasure before the staplers fall off completely.

I was able to masturbate around a week after stapler free and smooth healing.

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ramennoodles in reply to

When did your staplers fall off? I am on day 13 and they are all still on

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Mine at the end of week 2.

Now that I'm checking my frenulum, it is indeed tight on erection and pulling up shaft skin quite tightly along with scrotum.

Anyway, you need to revisit the surgeon to remove staplers if not showing sign of falling off.

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ramennoodles in reply to

I just contacted my doctor a while back and asked about my frenulum, apparently it's very rarely removed in my country (I am from Indonesia) which is why it's intact.

On the topic of your frenulum, if you had to check to see that it's tight, I am guessing it doesn't cause much discomfort? It seems like even though yours is tight, it doesn't hurt and sex is very normal?

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wah, fellow indonesian. haha.

I was planning to ask doctor tomorrow, but I guess it won't be necessary anymore. Most likely I'll get the same answer.

cheers mate.

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Oh awesome! Haha didn't expect that. What clinic did you go to? You can message me if you dont feel comfortable sharing the name here

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MtBlanco in reply to ramennoodles

Hi, Im also an Indonesian. I got circ 4 days ago. And the frenulum issue hit my mind just now. Is your frenulum getting better after 2 mths?

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ramennoodles in reply to MtBlanco

It's perfect, no issues 4 weeks after operation, it's been 8 weeks now and it's even better. I can masturbate at the same intensity as pre-op and orgasms are even more intense. It was tight initially but don't worry it should be fine once your penis adapts to its new cut. And it's so much easier to clean! no bad smell and no bacterial buildup.

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MtBlanco in reply to ramennoodles

Thats great!

I think we went to same circ clinic and chose same method. Thanks for sharing the recovery pics, gave me idea on whats to come

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ramennoodles

Unfortunately no, we did not discuss the style. When I am flaccid the skin slightly covers the base of the glan so I think it's loose, which is good since I am a grower.

Also, can I ask what people mean by "when the circumcision scar loosens"? I seem to read that on this forum a lot.

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ramennoodles

I think low and kind of loose. Although I have lost an inch atm. Once I regain the inch it might be fairly tight.

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ramennoodles

It's a common thing that occurs after circumcision. You don't "lose" an inch, but your erections aren't as large as before because the skin needs to stretch first. Also, since erections typically cause pain during the first weeks of recovery, the brain associates pain with erections. Usually after a few weeks or a couple months the erections grow back to regular size as the skin is stretched and everything heals up.

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ramennoodles

Yes but my pain is specifically around the frenulum, which makes me wonder what caused that.

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Arun2021

This is my 15th day of stapler circumcision, silicon ring with staples are out but pin on frenulum, doesn't show any improvement, more over it is going inside, what to do for that? In your recovery also faced same issue? Kindly reply

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