Unsettle

[Sarbjitpahal11]

Hi I am back to group I need your favour anyone now my daughter she got a severe autism sometime after 5or 7 days she is very calm but after she get very unsettled She don’t like to do anything normally when she happy play with the iPad and she do a couple activity please anyone got same experience please let me know I am so confuse I don’t know why is she after 7 day she Very un settled I don’t understand why she are over 20-year-old please please anyone now same problem let me know

[Sarbjitpahal11]

Thank you very much reply when she unsettle she don’t like to do anything she start wearing shoe and court she like to go for a walk she don’t like to come back home we already try sensory toy what she don’t like see when she unsettle she try to pick up from floor any crumb and she got like OCD please let me know if you think something else thank you so much

[LDAutie in reply to Sarbjitpahal11]

Hi Sarbjitpahal11, (I hope you don’t mind me posting on your post indieabc) ...

does your daughter have a visual planner?

It also sounds like she greatly struggles with transitions like myself,ie such as going for a walk and not wanting to come home...a visual PECS Planner can help if made in the right way for your daughters thinking and needs.

You coud make this kind of schedule for task transitions-

| TASK NOW | TASK ENDING SOON | TASK FINISHED | NEXT TASK|

SoYou woud put the pictorial of her first task ‘TASK NOW’ (let’s call it swimming) and her next task pictorial under ‘NEXT TASK’ (let’s call it go home).

When it’s around the time of going home,and you get to ‘Task ending soon’ ,you coud ask your daughter to move her pictorial to this section-the more control she has over it the more she will be able to connect it to her self and process it.

Whilst in the ‘TASK ENDING SOON’ stage,I recommend using a 10 minute sand timer from a shop like ROMPA,Telling her clearly, when the sand gets to the bottom,we need to go home now but we can come out again another day.

And start over again with the next task.

As she gets older,she may become very reliant on the schedule format, or may be able to build up to having a days worth of activities/tasks on her schedule like mine,I do know other people,much higher on the on the spectrum who can manage a weeks worth of scheduled tasks/activities but there is so much unpredictability in this and anything can change,when you are so fixed and rigid on having to do certain things, it’s best having a day (or less) pictorial schedule,mine is now a day long,but I started out with now and next many years ago.

If you want to make your own PECS download the free windows app, pictoselector,if you need any help with this please let me know.

[Sarbjitpahal11 in reply to LDAutie]

Dear LDAutie

Thank you very much you’re so kind can you help me how to download pictoselector this application to my iPhone because I haven’t got computer what sometime when I try to show picture to my daughter she don’t want listen to me she said to me no no when she got behaving problem she stop listening me I am struggling to manage her behave when is she getting older she stop listening me she got behaving problem myself I am disabled as well I am permanent on wheelchair I am not able to walk when she happy mood she listen to me every time she’s over 19-year-old she stopped going to college this year maybe her routine broken she is completely depend to me and my wife please let me know if you know how can you manage behaving problem anyone help me thank you so much God bless you mr Pahal