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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon
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I have just spoken to my brother and he wants me to support him by running the Brighton marathon with him next year 😱 He’s recovering from radio therapy and is really struggling so I guess I’m going to have to do it. I really truly hate the idea of a marathon but I can’t let him down. It’ll be a challenge for both of us for sure.

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misswobble profile image
misswobbleMarathon

You’re half way there already 🙂

If you allow at least four months training you can do it.

It’s always good to have a plan on the go. Good luck with it 💪👍🙂

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to misswobble

Thank you misswobble. Halfway to hell if you ask me. 😂 That’s a song isn’t it? I’ll have to start looking at marathon training plans I suppose. 😅

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misswobbleMarathon in reply to RunBrianRun

You’ll need lots of long songs and a PLAN 💪👍😃

Stick to your plan, do your runs and you’ve nothing to fear on the day. I get to 32 k (20 miles) about an month before DDay and then think about tapering after that

Have fun 😃

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Irish-JohnMarathon

You can do it Brian. I sure as heck didn't think I could and I bet my house you are better equipped than me :)

The hardest part is spending the time training - it's a big and constant investment.

What kept me going was remembering

"It won't be easy - but it definitely will be worth it"

Best wishes for it Running pal :)👍🏻

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to Irish-John

Thank you IJ and your belief in my ability to do it. 👍😊 I’m going to do the training with my brother and I’ll invest the time to make sure I can support him on the day.

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Irish-JohnMarathon in reply to RunBrianRun

I'm looking forward to your Race report Brian :)👍🏻

roseabi profile image
roseabiUltramarathon

This is our 5000th post!!

You can do that marathon, Bri!!!!! It's great fun 😊😊😊 Maybe I'll see you at the start line?!

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to roseabi

Maybe that’s a sign? 😁 It would be lovely if you were there at the start line too. 😊

roseabi profile image
roseabiUltramarathon in reply to RunBrianRun

Well, I am booked for it 😊

Decker profile image
DeckerUltramarathon in reply to roseabi

This is definitely a sign!

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Beachcomber66AdministratorHalf Marathon

Well; that’s it!! No choice. Easily within your compass; just try to find a way of enjoying it. 👍

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to Beachcomber66

Love your belief in me beachcomber 👍😂☺️ I’ll try my best to enjoy it but it’s so far out of my comfort zone. I thought to myself at the end of my impromptu HM, how that was only half of a marathon, and look at the state of me. Let’s see..,,,

Beachcomber66 profile image
Beachcomber66AdministratorHalf Marathon in reply to RunBrianRun

Ok, but I did my HM aged 67 and I can’t do a sub 60 10k!!! You have loads left in your tank! 🏎

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misswobbleMarathon in reply to Beachcomber66

Flippin eck. That’s quick 🌪💥

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linda9389AdministratorMarathon

That so made me laugh! Which I suspect is a rather inappropriate response, sorry. But I love that the short distance speed demon is going to have a crack at a marathon so soon after his first half marathon (that was never going to happen)! All things are possible. You will smash it. Your brother is amazing too!!!

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to linda9389

I knew you’d find this funny Linda 🙄😂 Now where can I find a marathon training plan? 🤔

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linda9389AdministratorMarathon in reply to RunBrianRun

😅 I'm not sure you need one do you? Keep on running short and fast, join your brother when he wants company during his plan ... then knock it out of the park from nowhere in September - just like you did your half!!!

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to linda9389

That’s a perfect plan!

TailChaser profile image
TailChaserMarathon

You just did a HM off the cuff! Of course you can do a full marathon! (No pressure of course 🤣) 💪💪💪

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to TailChaser

Thank you TC ☺️ Probably best I don’t beat myself up about it and do it by stealth. Seems to be working so far. 👍

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon

I’ve managed to rope my son in to support us both. Poor lad. 😂

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GoGo_JoJoUltramarathon in reply to RunBrianRun

Even better, the more support all round, the easier it will be to get round. You'll be the three musketeers. It will be a fantastic familial journey 👍🏻😁

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cheekychipmunksHalf Marathon

Brian. You’re an absolute natural. If I can run HM distance, you sure as heck can run a FM. 😀

You have a great incentive with your brother. and you have a whole herd of loyal VRB’s to cheer you on and pick you up if training gets tough.

Go for it! 💪👊👊🏃‍♂️💥😍

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to cheekychipmunks

Thank you cheeky! 😊 That really helps knowing that I’ll have support here. I wonder if anyone else has signed up for it. I know Roseabi has but maybe there might be a few of us up for it? It would be great to see a few vrbs at the meet. ☺️😀

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Madge50Marathon

Do it, do it, do it! You know that’s still how I feel, I still can’t quite believe I’ve done a marathon, and same as Irish-John , treated the distance with great respect, took it steady, and what do you know? Only flippin well did it.

I’m sure having company, a joint or shared goal was really important, and made me determined to finish......

You only have to do it once 😉......🏅....and the kudos is yours forever....💪

Mx

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to Madge50

Thank you madge for your encouragement ☺️ I have decided I will do it and the support on here is awesome. Got to do it now. 😬

What a brother 👍 you've got this Brian no doubts 💪

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to

Thanks Ian 😊 He’s pretty remarkable really and an inspiration for me. He’s the one who sets my targets for me. He often doesn’t know he’s doing it, but he has faith in me, and makes me reach further than I think I’m capable of. A strong man for sure and I really enjoy our runs together when they happen. He is also really persuasive! Hence why I’m doing this 😂

SlowLoris profile image
SlowLoris

Piece of cake. Not.

Gotta be done though.

Decker profile image
DeckerUltramarathon

You’ve got this one Brian. You’ll smash it! And how often will this kind of chance come up again in the future?

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to Decker

I’m not built for distance so it’s going to be super hard for me. And you are right, it’ll be one for the memory bank for sure.

misswobble profile image
misswobbleMarathon in reply to RunBrianRun

You see all shapes, sizes and ages doing all distances. Always amazes me 🙂

Decker profile image
DeckerUltramarathon in reply to RunBrianRun

We believe in you! Go get that thing!

Tasha99 profile image
Tasha99Marathon

Do it! Just to tick it off the bucket list 😊

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to Tasha99

I am going to do it Tasha 😱

Tasha99 profile image
Tasha99Marathon in reply to RunBrianRun

The only advice is can give you, is too babe sure you train really really slowly. I did long runs too fast - I thought they were slow but they weren’t slow enough. By the time I got to race day I was broken 🤣

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to Tasha99

ThanksTasha. Is there a tips post on HU here somewhere? It would be really useful if those who have gone before could share some insights and feedback.

Tasha99 profile image
Tasha99Marathon in reply to RunBrianRun

Not that I know of. Maybe they admin team might know of one, but I’m sure you’d get plenty of tips if you asked 👍🏽 Following a plan didn’t work for me. It was too intense. Next time I’d just up my long run every other week. For the in between weeks, I’d drop right back to say 50% for that long run day. And you don’t need to do more than 20 miles. Although if I went really, really slowly a plan would probably work out ok now.

Littleoyellow profile image
Littleoyellow10 Miles

Just seen your post Brian. Imagine you and your brother crossing that finish line arms raised in triumph 😁 now that's worth it! You've got this 👍

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to Littleoyellow

That would be amazing. I hope we can both do this.

Littleoyellow profile image
Littleoyellow10 Miles in reply to RunBrianRun

You both take my very best wishes with you on your adventure together 👍

Irishprincess profile image
IrishprincessAdministratorHalf Marathon

I love the way you really don't want to do it but you are anyway because of your brother. You’ll both need to watch that sibling rivalry thing though 😉

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to Irishprincess

Yes IP I can’t let him down. He’s much more competitive than me but I don’t mind letting him win this one 😜

C3PO profile image
C3POMarathon

The training is going to be hard, but knowing that you're going to do it with your brother will get you through it. Also, it is nice to say that you've done a marathon.

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RunBrianRunHalf Marathon in reply to C3PO

Hopefully worth it in the end.

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