Hi can any one help I was diagnosed with Lupus 4 years ago but had it prior to this and didn't no about it. I have been going through the menopause for 3 years. I never get a break from hot sweats I am now having palpitations and panick attacks when I get a hot sweat I literaly drip sweat, Is this the menopause or is this Lupus I am so tired and I ach? I am now getting a lot of headaches. I have tried everything on the shelf at boots to help both. I am even taking alovera juice as I have been told this will help. Lupus has also caused me to have a lactos intolerence (sorry about the spellings). Things at times are so bad Iv had silly thoughts of doing away with my self as I find it hard to cope. I am happily married and I lover my husband to bits s couldn't do this to him. I am just wanting all these symtoms to go away. all the doctor does is want to put me on antidepresence so I can sleep better at night. I hate taking pills so throw them in the bin. Has anyone found a herbal remedy that actualy works?