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So today I had my d&c under general anaesthesia my husband was not allowed to sit and wait with me until my surgery which was 3hr 45 min wait in a waiting room full of other women having different treatments done, the conversation fastly moved to them talking/complaining about there children so I just went an sat in the toilets and cried my various pre ops took place and then it was my name called they were making small talk as they tried to drift me off to sleep but all I did was cry through the questions I woke up sobbing I instantly felt empty not pregnant at all anymore, it’s true I feel like they took a piece of my heart too. now I’m home no complications which is great just back at square one

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Hi Becky

I'm so very sorry for everything you went through today. The fact your husband couldn't sit with you while waiting for your surgery is awful, very thoughtless of them considering what you were going through .

And the women though maybe not intentioned were very thoughtless too.

It sound like overall the care and thought for the patients could be much better.

I hope you are doing as OK you can and resting from the surgery.

Im so sorry of the loss of your baby 💕💕 hugs to you and sending you love 💗💗

Xxx

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