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Hi ladies. All of us are here due to different reason. Majority of you are having infertility issues. I feel really sorry for all of you. I am not fertile. You will be shocked to know that still I cannot be a mom. Yeah it happens. I am also in the same spot as you ladies are. Just the issues are a bit different. But are dreams are the same. The reason of my issue is my heart disease. It I a fatal disease. I am having my treatment so I can recover ASAP and have my own baby. But I guess it is not that easy for me. I know nothing is easy for you ladies as well. Just keep trying and trying. We will one day get to the solution. I hope so. Take care.

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kayleemartin

Hey dear. I understand what you are going through. I am also infertile. It's because of stress issues. I had stress issues in past which lead to infertility. Stressing affected my ovulation cycle. I had been on medicines to resolve this but nothing worked out. I am going to give IVF a try now. I hope it works out for me.

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amandagrey

Hi Jenna. So sorry to hear that, my dear. What exactly is your heart condition? Don't believe that it is fatal. Get a second opinion. Who knows? There just be an answer. Good luck!

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karinacollin

Hi Jenna, how are you. Well I am really sorry for you too. It's really a very difficult to bear. It has all the pain that no other thing has. Be calm Jenna. I know how could you keep calm. But that is the only option my friend.

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Leah254

Hello Jenna, it’s pretty much true, that we all are here for different reasons. I am really sorry to hear about your condition. Heart disease is the no.1 killer of women. Every minute a women dies due to disease. Your health should be your first priority. Get your proper treatment. Take plenty of rest. Loads of prayers and best wishes from my side.

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juliacurio

Hi! Everyone?Hope things going too be positive soon because nothing in this world is sustained or last.For women struggling with infertility, "just relax" is perhaps the worst – and most commonly given – unsolicited advice. It's an attempt to be helpful, but it's based on common misconceptions about the relationship between stress and infertility, and it adds a far great burden than it relieves.So release stress and think positive.

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jennaworks

Hey ladies!Hope so you are enjoying your life and too busy with your house chores.I agree with you.We should wait and keep calm.We should try our best to have our own baby.I can understand it's a heart touching thing that we are infertile and unable to conceive a baby but it is not our personal created mess.It's a natural thing and we should think at least all women should think upon it that it's not in our control.Every woman wants to be a mother in her life.If we found symptoms of infertility in ourselves then don't shy or feel hesitate by thinking that what other people will think about it.We should go to the doctor and discuss our issues regarding infertility and have a well-known treatment.Also, convince your husband for tests.Thanks a lot and enjoy your life because we have only one life that never comes again...

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Mel77

Hey, hun. Infertility sucks, but there's nothing to do just struggling it. Desparate for babies, after years ttc with no success we found ourselves in a fertility clinic hoping for a miracle. We took egg donation route, because own eggs were not likely do it at all. We experienced the heartbreak of bfn. Then following bfp with twins who survived and developed into beautiful babies. Currently we are with the clinic again hoping for more kids but really feel time's looming. I can't imagine the bitterness of heart disease issue, but sure it's a huge burden. I wish you all the best of luck with your treatment. Hugs X

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JustKnewIt

Hello, lovely! Don't be so hard on yourself! Infertility is painful enough without adding guilt and shame to the mix. It is so important not to quantify our pain, and compare it to others. So try not to judge yourself for your pain at this early stage. What you are experiencing is a very valid, deep pain that only those on this side of the fence can truly understand.

I was born without womb. So I had to go the surrogacy route. It is very difficult to accept and move on knowing your genes will are to be saved through lab works. I knew I still would have a child with my features. And only after we had discussed it all, I knew we were moving the right way. This is a surrogate whose blood flows through a baby to nourish. We were successful from the first attempt with a ukrainian clinic. Laria was born weghing 8 lb 12 oz by planned Caesarean on March 17 the following year. I was at the surrogate's side in the operating room. Personally I think we're given all those obstacles to know the true value of happiness. Of course we don't accept this at once so that we take time needed but finally get there. I'm praying for your luck whatever your path would be. Sending you huge virtual hugs

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