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Im not sure if I'm here for help or if i need help but I just feel confused and anxious. It could be that i don't fully understand what has happened to me and not sure were to go for the information I need. Sometimes i feel like it's a burden on me and then I just block everything.

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Sepsur

Good morning Slowhands - this link has a lot of info that may answer some of your concerns cc-sn.org/information

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Slowhands in reply to Sepsur

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It’s common to feel confused and anxious after being in ICU. ICUsteps has a booklet about recovering from critical illness, written by patients and healthcare staff, available online at icusteps.org/information.

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FamilyHistorian

I would say that despite your confusion you clearly understand that you need clarity. Only those who have been through icu will understand where you are coming from. It’s really important, I think not to block things having said that it can be difficult to talk to others including family. Exposing yourself is difficult.Also for men of a certain age their family role is very traditional, the reality is that they are very vulnerable and accepting that is difficult

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Slowhands in reply to FamilyHistorian

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Yes it can seem very confusing if you have been in ICU for a prolonged time, particularly if you had ICU delerium. Some memories can be haunting, but I have managed this by concentrating on the positives, namely I survived, the doctors and nurses ...we are so lucky to have the NHS.

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Thanks and they are marvellous.

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