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I'm just newly diagnosed. I'm in my young thirties. I feel like no one will ever love me. I feel that I am undesirable.

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Hi there how are u doing am good just here looking for some one with the same am hiv positive undetecable and healthy i would like to get to know u

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sumaleng in reply to

thats cool how did u do that

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hey where u from am texas

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Ijeoma20 in reply to

Am from Lagos Nigeria.

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cool i would like to know u and be more if u would like to ur a handsome guy

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Ijeoma20 in reply to

Am not a guy am a lady from Nigeria.

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Ijeoma20

I feel the same way too, even up till now no body in my life, my man to be left me when I told him am positive, but am coping still believing God for what he can do.

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hi there

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sumaleng

be open minded dear im here for you

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hi there how are u

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Ijeoma20 in reply to

Am fine and you hope you are good too.

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sumaleng in reply to

IM FINE THANK YOU

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Am good just here going to work are u single i would like to know u and see what happens

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sumaleng in reply to

Yes I live alone and Im currently working Im single as well

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hi there sorry i havent answered u i work two jobs and sometime i work all day like from 8am till 11 pm but tomorrow and sunday i only work one job i would like to know u better u seem nice and respect full i like that so where u from i want to know u and mybe more here is my numberu can tex me or call me 830-309-1533 am RICK nice to meet u

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sumaleng in reply to

sure no worries Im very friendly very strict but sweet Im from the Philippines and I dont ahve partner Im looking into it do you have facebook by the way so that i can add you heres my emial address moradojayson@yahoo.com

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sumaleng in reply to

nice talking to you dear I hope to know you better and Im here to help you just keep on dreaming and be optimistic Im here for you I have my shoulders to lean on keep smile start always your day with full of posibilities

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Martin

Hey dont worry i was diagnosed a year ago and felt exactly the same way and met an amazing guy a couple of months after my diagnosis hes negative and isnt at all fazed by it it does get easier and dont give up i know words are easy to say but you ll see dont let the condition rule you and if you meet someone who doesn't love you for you then that is there problem

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H i there how are u doing

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Martin in reply to

Good thanks you?

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hi there how are u doing am good so far i work two jobs and u

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sumaleng in reply to

take care

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Martin in reply to

I have one job and im engaged today so life does get better

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Martin in reply to

Im good i work one job on nights

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247sweet

I agree with Martin.

It is a terrible shock to be diagnosed. But it gets easier with time. You try to keep a good attitude and look after and love yourself and things will get better for you.

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Martin in reply to247sweet

Thanks 247sweet its true though i think ive only just got my head around it it takes time and we always think it wont happen to us

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sumaleng in reply to247sweet

How are you

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hi there how are u

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JordanKyy14

Hey I feel miserable right just after finding about my status,I just feel the way you feel

I don't think I'll ever find someone who loves me

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Hi there how are u doing i felt the same way but just think positive and u will am here if u need someone

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SDlatin

Stay strong and hang in there. I remember going though that and it's not easy, but I promise you something, it will get better. You will have a good and healthy life. I'm now very healthy, undetectable, and smiling a lot. Hugs from Southern California.

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sumaleng

Imagine yourself without knowing your STATUS you wouldn't even know if you're a VICTIM or what not. . . Basically the day that we were diagnosed that we were a HIV + its our privilege because we know if where we coming from. . .don't loose hope soar and dream high. . .For those who havent yet know their STATUS its the best TIME For you to undergo TEST. . . Im a typical Filipino who have is very AMBITIOUS and HAVE A STRONG FIGHTING SPIRIT thats why I need to GO WITH THE FLOW I NEED TO RIDE WITH THE JOY AND MOST OF ALL I NEED TO EMBRACE IT.. .. .. HONEY BEING POSITIVE IS NOT A CURSE BUT WITHOUT ANY IDEA ABOUT YOUR STATUS IS A WORSE.. . . . FLY HIGH BE PROUD AND LOUD

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end-stigma

Hello there. I have been positive for 25 years and come to realize that if a person can't handle your status then they aren't the right person.

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bad-monkey

You are freaking adorable! I cannot imagine that you will never be loved. But it feels that way at times being poz. I found out my status about 3 or 4 months ago. I am here to listen if you need to talk

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libradreamaz

Hi there, how are you

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AlexCA

I wouldn't be that worried about being loved again. Eventually you will get over the hiv situation. Remember to love yourself not finding love in someone else. Once you're comfortable in your own skin magically things get their own place. Hiv can be a great filter to keep people away when they are not good for you

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Andilek1981

Hi . How are u?? I know the feeling but believe me, time is a healer!! All will be good ... I am Tommy , 34, diagnosed 2 years ago. I live in London. Where do you live ???

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