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i have a rap..heres"D"needs some therapy,difficult and rude with serious attitude.so i get msg from the man saying wait till i show you cuts on my leg mam.rang s/worker all over it 10 mins "safeguarding" blah.had call with manager in afternoon.as most of you know im not messing i get right to it.then she says im known to be "difficult?rude"?so much so that all veterans agencies have refused to "engage"with me further.desired effect to be fair,im thinking she would surely never dare say such unless correct right?...so,here we go again folks...mmmm.already have 2 emails.the absolute stupidity of these people amazes me,this person has much more to lose than myself,and nothing will stop me from sharing what she said to whoever i chose..and also,who could ever consider myself rude and difficult?...xx

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hi … I’m sorry I don’t know what to say other than I’m so sorry your dealing with this once again .. I’m guessing things aren’t good in the place he is living again … why do we feel let down at the care /support we ( a lot of us ) are getting .. communication is little to non existent … I’m not completely up to date on what’s been happening with your son but not only does he need the right care … so do you ❤️ I’m hoping others in here will have some constructive advice for you in your sons care .. for you I can only think getting counselling /support would help you so much with what you are dealing with ..

I know that is what I say so much but it is what I have used though my life pre -accident and know that has enabled me to live my life dealing with an enormous amount of physiological issues form a devastating past .. I’ve had ptsd , guilt , depression, anxiety,the list goes on and have dealt with them thought the help of counselling and reading books … I’ve managed to turn horrendous into positives and have gone on to work with people who need support … and this was pre my TBI .. please get help for you to deal with your sons support or lack of it as this is just as important as your sons support … it’s not a miracle cure , it doesn’t make all the crap disappear , it just helps you find ways of living with it … Sue x

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cat3

Can't believe I missed this post D ; I'd just messaged you 🙄...

I'm hoping that Sean's injuries turn out to have a less ominous cause than first appears. Honestly m'love, it's one anxiety on top of another.

But try to consider your own blood pressure and mental heath when taking on yet more issues ....easy for me to say I know, but your wellbeing is really important too. You're a trooper but need some respite and TLC here & there.

Keep us updated on how the situation evolves won't you ?

Thinking of you, and love as always, E Xx

(Your rap is pretty good BTW..🤨)

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Alibongo60

Hi D, WOW, she is so in the wrong saying that, I am sure as professionals that is not what they would be discussing and if they were obviously to the wrong person and is disgusting. They should all understand at the end of the day you want what’s best for Sean, and you are looking out for him. Hope you can get some answers and some peace, take care my friend love Alice xx

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