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To all of my wise and encouraging friends Happy Christmas Peace and Love.

I am officially divorced on Christmas Eve, I went to Tenerife and faced my fear of the narcissistic leach I was able at the end of the case to tell him that he was an adulterous person a abuser, emotionally and physically but now I face you I am not afraid of you. It felt so liberating and free. Now this year it’s the financial situation with a English solicitor.

I know without your support and encouraging I would have not had the strength to confront my fears but it’s done now. I am free ,after32 years of abuse. A great big HUG from me and Shelly. I know I still have a long way to go health matters but I am walking slowly forward not backwards.

With Christmas Blessings and a healthy New Year.God Bless you all Liz and my adorable Shelly xxx

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Painting-girl

You've been very brave Liz, hugs to you and Shelly x

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cat3

What an enormous stride forwards you've made Liz. Well done in getting this far! I know the despair and exhaustion of both physical and psychological abuse ........and the peace & freedom from escaping it. I hope you're well over half way to living the life you choose...

Love & best wishes to you and your faithful little Shelly. Cat Xx

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1949liz in reply to cat3

thanks Cat, as you understand it helps knowing I was not alone. The encouragement and kindness of everyone has been amazing now it’s an English Solicitor who is doing the financial situation onwards and forward.

Love and Blessings Liz and Shelly 🙏❤️🐶

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cat3 in reply to 1949liz

We're all rooting for you Liz. I hope you'll be back before too long with the best possible news ! 🤞 Xx

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Leaf100

You did it! That's a big one checked off the list., Liz.

All the best to you and Shelly.

Leaf

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Teazymaid

so pleased to hear you confronted the demons … amazing step forward in your future life ..sue x

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1949liz in reply to Teazymaid

thank you it’s was amazingly easy once I started to open up. I told him how much he had hurt me. He just looked shocked that I was brave enough to make myself heard.God Bless Love Liz and Shelly xxx

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Forrest1512

congratulations!

Amazing news and the first big step completed! Well done 👏

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1949liz in reply to Forrest1512

thank you it’s amazing what strength you can achieve when your brain and body is weak. Thanks for your encouragement Love Liz and Shelly

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skydivesurvivor

go one better! Decre nisi on anniversary of sisters death?!! Was my guardian angel, refused me entry as I rattled pearly gates 22 years ago!!! Happy new year & keep safe!!

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1949liz in reply to skydivesurvivor

in Tenerife only divorce he start the divorce in Tenerife divorce is divorce. I am free, only financial to go through. I have a good solicitor in Shrewsbury he is amazing hope by next year everything will be done and dusted. Take care Love Liz and Shexx

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