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[Dogsabighelp]

so now it seems i have been mistaken.just hear that they all doing stuff meetings etc.without my knowledge.there was never an order in place so why did someone say this?i was advised to put in writing issues with seans care.i havnt been able to visit .because of time/covid sean gone back to front.acute to assesment to care.he went to care first because of situation.i have spoken with walkergate park who are more than ready to accept sean at first chance.im in impossible situation,to be honest they say he has no capacity.for myself i wont see him lying naked nor will i speak with director who speaks to me about another person in very graphic detail.all over it why do i feel so sad?im told the bridge has no rating(they never ask)someone came to my door with a card said i was loved.so you have dol i thought this was in place not..clearly im in viking mode so i did with advice from durham social services got to take the lack of care/service and my experience of the bridge.only problem my main issue is with the director and the vile things he told me.time for the axe to come out...i could really do without it,he could also because he thinks he teflon.i never know why it has to be me every time.deep breath .swear in all my life only ever me.

[Marnie22]

Have you thought of getting an advocate? They can be really helpful. Google advocates in your area. Usually the local or district council will fund an advocacy service. You should be able to get free help. Best wishes. 🌼

[cat3]

Thinking of you D with love and such admiration... I hope you take some respite, maybe a cuddle or two with Sox ?

Best of wishes as always for Sean.

Take care m'love. Cat xx

[Nanapal]

Just wanted to show you my support on here D ( we speak privately). You are a strong mother who is fighting for what is best for Sean. A battle with the ‘care’ placement’ is one that shouldn’t be necessary. The poor care, mismanagement and total lack of communication with yourself is disgraceful.

🤞🏽Sean gets his placement at Walkergate Park very soon as this rehabilitation hospital and all it’s staff are in a class of their own - a standard that all should aspire to. Best wishes Nanapal x

[ored13]

It sounds like it's definitely time for an advocate. My blood boils when I hear of this sort of thing and think back on the things we have also been through with many who know better, talk down to you and just make random decisions without mentioning anything. You need someone to speak for you and put your thoughts through without you sounding like you are freaking out...even though you are. And sometimes you just need to freak at them, which sounds horrible. But I had to leave nice me behind at a point with the hospital. They all hated me. I didn't care. I'm glad he's out of there. I'm shattered and my everything hurts from being on the go again, but at least there is control. Speak to the advocates and see whether you can start communicating with the hospital by email so there is at least some sort of record (they don't love this but who cares). Also there must be a clinical coordinator there and you must put a complaint in. I know it seems like there is not enough time. ❤️

[Pairofboots]

I am so sorry to hear this continuing catalogue of stress and poor care. Someone needs the proverbial rocket where the sun doesn't shine. If there is anything I can help you with, just shout. x