I want to know if anyone else shares the same frustration as me in their relationship with someone with a TBI, I don’t want to sound pathetic but it’s really starting to get to me. My partner has slowly started to neglect how much he is showering. I have to remind him everyday if he’s showered or has he cleaned his teeth. He is so young and should want to do this as he starts to smell and I just find it to hard to cope with. When we go shopping he always buys deodorant and aftershave and loves it, but it’s the routine of showering he can’t be bothered with some days. We are differing in this department but I’m finding I can’t deal with it anymore. He says he can’t be bothered or he just needs to rest. I’m well aware of fatigue management but he goes to the gym and works out and still doesn’t want to shower. It is creating a big divide and is starting to make us argue a lot. It’s so hard for me to bite my tongue because I am struggling to cope with our relationship at the moment. Anyone else find things this difficult as it’s such a small issue I’m slightly embarrassed to be writing this!