A great post. By a great wife. Hubby will understand and show greater appreciation of your situation as time passes. I know that a little (half a teaspoon) of coconut oil, pure, once a day morning time, is good for soothing and settling the brain. This could also apply to you, I was diagnosed with Ataxia and found myself blaming those around me for my misfortune.
On a good day I promised myself not to punish those looking after me. I have a computer and have found a good social media site where I interact with some lovely people who have been a great help to me in coping with my condition. All it takes is a tablet and an Internet connection.
I hope this helps you and your children.
God bless you all☺