I just don't know what to do anymore & feel like I'm at breaking point, I can't even describe how low I feel right now. I have 3 children 4,7 & 11 & im desperately trying to hold things together for everyone. My husband fell down some stairs on the 1st oct 2016 8 months ago & had a blood clot the size of a fist removed from his brain, he had 45 staples & was in hospital for 5weeks. He's progressed quite well all in all. His speech is fine, he walks fine & for anyone to look at him or chat to him for an hour they would think there was nothing wrong. Jesus it does annoy me & I know it's not there fault cuz they don't understand brain injuries but it makes my job harder. He's so up & down. Changes his mind as quick as he made it & thinks I'm telling him wot to do all the time. He's desperate to go bk to work but has no license & wants to sell the house & move away cuz he feels stuck in are house. We have quite a bit of equity sat in are house & he wants to pull that out to start again & rent somewhere. However I don't feel the time is right at the minute & have said to him that we need to wait a few more months & get bk on are feet 1st. His answer to this was I want a divorce cause I'm going & I can't stay here anymore, I know he's not thinking straight & is winding himself up(it's like a vicious circle)😪😪
He won't speak to me about it anymore & says he wished he'd of died, I'm scared he'll do something stupid cuz he's so low. I just don't know wot to do for him anymore to help him? I've told him that I think he's all over the place & not thinking straight but he just won't listen. Has anyone else had a similar issue or anyone got any advice they can throw my way as I have completely hit a brick wall with him.