Hi all,
Posting in here as you guys get it.
Partner of 12 yrs was in an explosion Feb this yr, sustained severe traumatic brain injury amongst other injuries. The expectation was he wouldn't make it & if he did would be severely disabled.
Going through the whole hospital experience, neuro intensive care, high dependency, being moved 3 times then to neuro rehab, i saw my love come through it and almost back to his old self, much more than I could have prayed for reading the posts on this site and Google.
He was able to come home 3 wks earlier than expected due to his amazing recovery... He was only home a couple of days when the anger and rage began.
I understand life was now different for him and tried to be a support where I could, but things just intensified. It would be smashing household items, confabulation, our 4 & 1 yr old pushing him away from me when he's screaming in my face to because I went school shoe shopping he broke my windscreen. Then unfortunately he assaulted me. I called the police and he was arrested. He had locked himself in the house, police did get in and he resisted arrest badly. I never thought anything could be worse than seeing him in that 1st ward all wounds open still.
He has a court date coming up & I'm in turmoil of this isn't his fault so he shouldnt be punished. Whilst that's the case, i certainly won't allow that to happen injury or not.
He still doesn't believe / in denial that he has a brain injury. And I just feel so heartbroken that our beautiful family and life we created has been smashed apart. I'm not sure I'll ever feel safe with him again so not holding on to once he gains the help he may improve somewhat.
I also feel guilty that he's had everything taken away& he needs support but i can't give it to him. Brain injuries are devastating!
Thank you for letting me rant.