Unwell

[hitman57]

Hi every body so sorry I’ve not been on here for a while but when I lost my wife do to her long time illness it hit me harder than I thought and struggling with my own health didn’t help and I did some stupid things and put my self in hospital but I’m back now and I hope to be on the mend the best way I can with every thing else that’s going on I would just like to say a big thank you to every body on here

[Alb2]

Wishing you well and I hope things continue to improve for you. Grief can be such an emotionally debilitating thing - be gentle with yourself and take care😊

[hitman57 in reply to Alb2]

Thank you so much yes I will but the pain gets me down so much

[Alb2 in reply to hitman57]

I’m sorry to hear that. Pain really wears you out doesn’t it? I’m just coming out of a flare up - I’m sure the current weather doesn’t help. What helps somewhat for me though is really hot baths and lots of gentle yoga stretches. I appreciate though that this won’t work for everyone. Hope things get better for you.

[hitman57 in reply to Alb2]

Thank you so very much

[Welshcatlady]

Sorry to hear that you haven't been too well, and for the loss of your wife. Grief can manifest itself in many different ways. I hope that things improve for you and remember we're here for you. I know how feel regarding the pain, I'm in the middle of a flare at the moment, and I curse my pain out loud a lot, doesn't make it go away but it makes me feel a bit better. Do take care.

[hitman57 in reply to Welshcatlady]

I will and thank you so very much god bless you

[Arymretep]

So sorry to hear about your wife, welcome back , we’re all here for you 🙂

[hitman57 in reply to Arymretep]

Thank you so very much

[hitman57 in reply to Arymretep]

Thank you so very much

[CheetieCat]

So sorry for your loss, grief and pain must be an awful combination. Nice to see you're back 😊

[hitman57 in reply to CheetieCat]

Yes I’m back but not up to full speed yet as I think my head gasket has gone but I’m sure it will be fine soon thank you so very much

[army1]

I hope the great memories with your partner help you through this difficult time. Take care

[Lin7361]

Am so sorry for your loss

[hitman57 in reply to Lin7361]

Thank you so much xx

[Braveheart1]

Sorry to hear about the very sad loss of your wife. It’s more important now than ever to look after yourself, you need to allow yourself time to grieve. It’s such a difficult process. Sending virtual hugs, Braveheart x

[hitman57 in reply to Braveheart1]

Thank you so much bless you xx

[Kezzred12]

Sorry for you loss, sending hugs , take care x

[hitman57 in reply to Kezzred12]

Thank you so much bless you

[Hidden]

Hiya I'm so sorry for ur loss its not easy loosing your best friend and soul mate there are no words I have to say they can help but try to take each day as it comes little by little my friend im not sure if you have a pet but maybe consider as that will give you a reason to get up and get out if you can or groups for mental help in your area make friends with the same circumstances who understand I go to a few mental well being groups xxx your not alone be strong keep going dont give up im sure that's what your wife would of wanted for you xx ps don't do nothing silly again xxx

[Elizahl]

So sorry to hear of your loss I hope you are doing OK or as ok as can be expected anyway. It must be such a hard loss it us completely understandable you neglected yourself for a bit but you know now so just mind yourself I am sure she wouldn't want you to suffer.

[Hidden]

Hi Hitman I am so sorry for your sad loss .. it is so all consuming grief I know because I lost my husband on 13 December 2012 and I still feel the pain. Look after yourself and take care. Gentle hugs x

[Spider1]

I am so sorry to hear your sad news. This is the time you really need to look after yourself.Sending much love ❤️

[Midori]

Welcome back, Hitman!

[hitman57 in reply to Midori]

Thank you so much

[Yassytina FMA UK Volunteer]

Morning, glad to see you back and I am very sorry to hear about your wife s passing. It differently takes time to heal and being unwell and in pain make s it hard , So take care of yourself x

[hitman57 in reply to Yassytina]

Thank you so much it’s very kind of you and I wish you all the best and have a nice Christmas