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[Hayley95]

Hi all. Sorry I’ve needed time to myself . It was baby Charlie funeral yesterday morning. And I’m not well at all. Constant stomach cramps and being sick again. Not been up to talking at all. I don’t know what to do with myself no more.

[bantam12]

Is your hyperthyroidism under control ? If not that will make you very unwell.

[Hayley95 in reply to bantam12]

I don’t have a clue x

[bantam12 in reply to Hayley95]

Are you on Carbimazole, PTU or in remission ?

[Hayley95 in reply to bantam12]

Carbimazole x

[bantam12 in reply to Hayley95]

Maybe get your levels checked.

[fenbadger]

perfectly understandable in the circumstances. Take as much time as you need and if a vent is in order, this is the place. Trauma on top of illnesses never helps. Lots of love and hugs

[Kitten-kat23]

Hugs.

[Hidden]

Did you get something to help settle your tummy before you left?after loosing my husband my stomach was away to pot I had acid constantly because of the stress,it was like time flew by and I could hardly remember what I'd been doing all that time,just sheer shock.I hope you have plenty of family support?

[rebelist45]

It's a very difficult time for you Hayley. Please try and take care of yourself . Big hugs xx

[Hidden]

When my husband died I had a friend who did practical things and another friend who just sat with me, often in silence - just being with me; both were invaluable. It looks like you have many people who care about you and wish you well so I’m hoping that helps you. At first I tried to keep busy to keep the pain at bay but Ultimately I just had to sit and acknowledge the pain whilst remembering my husband. No one knows how you feel, this is your journey, but feeling supported can help along the way. I wish you well

[Louinpain]

The way you are feeling is perfectly normal after the loss you have suffered. A loss no one should ever have to go through. I hope the funeral went as well as can be expected chick. Keep taking one day at a time and listen to your body. When you need to rest ... rest. Just want to let you know that im thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. Sending my love and gentle hugs your way xxxx

[Mark8]

Ever so sorry for your loss hope you got good surpport around you wish you the best of luck my thoughts are with you take care and look after your self x

[Horsesgalore]

I am so very sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you & your family. Please look after yourself xx

[Midori]

I'm so sorry Hayley, can I recommend the Bereavement site on Health Unlocked? Not until you feel ready of course, but it may help.

Don't be afraid to show your grieving, and please don't listen to anyone who tells you to 'get over it'; grief doesn't work to a timetable, and it takes longer for some than for others. Treat yourself gently, and ask your GP if you need help.

[Hidden]

Oh Hayley, I don't have enough words to tell you how bad I feel for you. I am so, so sorry for your loss.

[Mdaisy]

Myself and the other Admin would like to say that we are so sorry for what you've been through. Please make sure you seek help from your healthcare professionals to get the support you need and also it might be worth as another member mentioned following the Bereavement Care HU site on HealthUnlocked to talk to others. Here's the link: healthunlocked.com/bereavem...

[Betty20]

Hi Hayley I’m sorry for your loss and the pain you must be in x x