morning everyone, thanks for all your advice, sorry I haven't been on here recently but I have been so ill.
Also I dont have a clue if I'm doing this whole thing right in these forums, so bear with me!! please.
last time I was here i mentioned my job, I had been threatened with dismissal due to my continuing absence... Well i had been signed off sick for 6 weeks after I got a really bad kidney infection, then out of nowhere I developed mouth ulcers that were so sore I couldnt even talk properly, and now this cold weather seems to get rich into my bones,it not only makes my body hurt more but I shiver uncontrollably, and my nose, lips feet and fingers turn blue.. I was finally diagnosed with CFS..its took almost 2years to get it, and I have an appt to see GP this evening and with the advice from the fatigue clinic have prescribed a management plan..Dont really know what this involves yet but hoping it helps.
I was due back at work at on the 1st of dec ..My employer called a meeting last week, i was too ill to attend and the outcome was..I was dismissed from my job, as they felt i was not able to carry out my duties due to my long term ill health.
At first I was angry, upset..although my attendance was pretty bad,when I was at work I done my job and I worked hard..All my colleagues were adamant I wouldn't and couldn't lose my job.One colleague but also a friend rang me yesterday asking when I was returning because everyone was missing me ( nice too hear) turns out no one knows ive been dismissed..which is really weird as when a member of staff leaves for whatever reason, a meeting is called and staff are informed, although obviously reasons are not given.
I am now quite relieved i was dismissed because i was having to explain all the time, i had my manager questioning me, asking abt my symptoms,watching me, checking my work and it was stressing me out to the point it was making my symptoms worse.
Dont know what to do now!! I have no money at all coming in..im on my own with a teenage daughter to support, what do I do?