Test day and before I even looked at it I knew it was neg - I had just that very second started to bleed. I just don't know why my body doesn't work. On my first ICSI cycle it almost felt as if I'd miscarried (daft eh?) but this time I don't feel anything ( yet), maybe anger and frustration. Since starting our treatment in December, I have done everything I can think of - losing weight, regular exercise, cutting out caffeine and alcohol, reflexology, acupuncture, pre-conception supplements, sperm friendly lubricant, charting and timing sex accordingly then keeping bum raised Even stuck to unscented deodorant and soap. And nothing has worked. Don't know what else to try. I even booked 2 weeks off work (unpaid) so I wouldn't be lifting. It's going to be a long time before we have the money for another go. My DH thinks I might be getting too stressed over it - but I'm 39 now and time is running out. Tried cheering myself up with Jaffa cakes - didn't work. Anyway, good luck to everybody on the 2 ww!