The dreaded 2 week wait!: Hi. Only... - Fertility Network UK

Fertility Network UK

51,711 members57,333 posts

The dreaded 2 week wait!

katiejane74656 profile image
6 Replies

Hi. Only joined last week and never "blogged" before so bare with me. Been reading some other blogs and I too am disgusted they way us "infertiles" are treated. Anyway, I just wanted to share my irrational thoughts and behaviour during this, my second, 2 week wait. Hubby and I had our first ICSI attempt a few months ago - BFN. This time around I am doing things differently and I am interested to hear if other women are being as irrational as me!! So, I have taken 2 weeks off work and I intend on staying in bed a lot, coming downstairs for meals and a cuppa! I am still using unscented shower gel and deodorant and not wearing perfume. I left caffeine behind a few months ago. I am scared to cough, sneeze, laugh and use the loo, and I won't stand for too long - I don't even want to turn over in bed! I got some new nail polish last week - but even decided against THAT as well! DH has also given our 2 embies a stern talking to! I know all this is unnecessary but my DH understands why I need to do it. I am so desperate for it to work I will try anything. This time around, I also have some abdominal pain - but my egg collection was done by the hospital butcher so maybe it's just that I'm still recovering. I don't test until the 29th June so I'm trying to stay positive and calm. If anyone else is going through this or just starting out, feel free to share thoughts and tips - or just vent some anger and frustration. Thanks for listening

PS Thanks for all the positive comments. Babydust to us all.

Written by
katiejane74656 profile image
katiejane74656
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
Read more about...
6 Replies
SusanS profile image
SusanS

You aren't irrational, lots feel the same way and I jus wanted to wish you all the best and fingers crossed for 29th June

katiejane74656 profile image
katiejane74656 in reply to SusanS

thanks Susan.

Dave2166 profile image
Dave2166

we're right there with you ... testing on the 28th... good luck from two fellow 2ww'ers

endogirl profile image
endogirl

Good luck, I keep my fingers crossed! And I perfectly understand your fears though our first IVF attempt still ahead of us, in July. Spend this time at home doing things you like - read positive books, watch movies [with happy endings only], write if you like... I wish you all the best!!

DianeArnold profile image
DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi katiejane

Unfortunately, the 2WW is just a nightmare time! I call it “knicker watching fortnight”! As a general rule implantation of your embryos occurs at around 5 days after transfer, if embryos are transferred at around 4-8 cell stage. So sometimes day 4 or even day 6 depending on their sizes. Blastocyst transfers implant usually on the day of transfer, as they are ready to “pop out” of their shells.

You’ve got the right idea about “strong smells”. I don’t know about embryos, but sperm certainly react to smoke and strong smells. You’re fortunate that you can have the time off to chill out, especially in view of the fact that the “hospital butcher” has had his/her hands on you! All that prodding about does need a little time to recover from. Remember to drink plenty too.

I hope that all works out well for you both, but remember to leave your test date until the proper time and try not to be tempted to test earlier. Also, you have had two embryos transferred, which would be great if they both continue to thrive. However, if you should have a little bleed during the wait, it could be just old blood coming away after the procedures you have been through. Just carry on using your progesterone (assuming you have been prescribed this). If you have a look at our website infertilitynetworkuk.com you will be able to see how we can support you further at this time. Meanwhile, I shall keep everything crossed for you both - and all those "waiting".

Diane

Thorbs04 profile image
Thorbs04

Fingers crosses for u x

You may also like...

The dreaded 2 week wait

out for help though. I'm 5 days past transfer and just feeling so miserable. I got bad period pain...

3dp5dt any one else starting the dreaded 2 week wait?

time round we have used icsi and we had 5 fertilise although only 1 Little emby made it all the...

On the long 2 week wait at last!

Well I'm just going on bed rest for 2 weeks and taking it ultra easy so hopefully I get a positive...

My third 2 week wait😭

their 2 week wait or just come out of it with any help tips? I thought I’d be more positive this...

Now for the 2 week wait

the cleaning of the vagina was abit painful .but just for a moment. Our only 2 top grade embryos...