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Had my transfer on Wednesday, All went well I had a few twinges a couple of days after but nothing since.. no bleeding either. Just feel tired and fed up!

Ive been off work for nearly two weeks and going back Tuesday. My mind is on overdrive being at home constantly thinking, is it going to be positive or negative.. only time will tell! 💕

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Abbie40

Good luck Bailey!!! Just try to keep your mind busy (will be easier when you’re back at work!) I know it’s so hard (had 7 transfers and it’s all consuming) and relax! Thinking of you and hope you get a positive outcome :) x

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Baileysmith in reply toAbbie40

Thank you xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Just wanted to wish you lots of, baby dust. Going back to work will help keep your mind occupied. Good luck hun 😘💝

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Baileysmith in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv

Aw thank you 💕

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Smang

Wishing you the best of luck xx

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Baileysmith in reply toSmang

Thank you xx

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Baileysmith

I'm doing ok thank you, I feel ok abit of bloating but nothing major and im constantly over thinking! Yes this is my first round of ivf..aw fingers crossed for your friend!

I'm definitely sleeping more I feel shattered!

Thank you so much xx

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JenRoy

I’m in the same situation! I’m now d95dt and am feeling very little. The odd cramp (occasionally quite strong) and generally fed up. I’ve managed to keep busy but had a bit of a meltdown yesterday, just felt so teary!

My boobs are only very slightly sore, barely at all. And otherwise I feel totally normal!!

So I’m so worried it hasn’t worked but hoping.

Terrified of test day!! Xx

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Baileysmith in reply toJenRoy

It's awful isn't it, your not alone, I feel so fed up too! it's my first time so I just don't know what to think! We shouldn't let it bother us like this, what will be will be, we can't change it no matter how much we want it.

Bless you, try not to worry to much, I think the build up is huge all the injections, blood tests etc then egg collection and transfer..and now we can't do anything except for wait! It's hard isn't it! But hopefully it will all be worth it!

I keep saying to my boyfriend if it hasn't worked we just move forward and try again!

I'm terrified too! Fingers crossed and try not to worry xx

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JenRoy in reply toBaileysmith

Thanks 😊. My first time too. I kept nice and busy last week but am having a gentle week this week. A week away with hubbie and family. Glad to be relaxing but too much time to think. The next 2 days will go painfully slowly!

Here’s hoping for baby dust 🌟🌈 for us both 🤞xx

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Kaylon

Hi Baileysmith, I had my ET on Wed as well. I have sore boobs and nipples and atm a feeling like my period is coming soon (it would be due today in my natural cycle). I also had some pretty intense dreams but otherwise I feel nothing. I'm also terrified of test day. I just don't want to see that negative on the test like so many times before...

I went back to work day after ET and I'm so tight in all my clothes and uncomfortable when at work. Bring on test day and good luck for you xxx

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Baileysmith in reply toKaylon

Hopefully the sore boobs are a good sign then! I'm not really getting that except for in the morning. I've had weird dreams too! I don't know if that is from overthinking though..we're in the same boat I'm so scared to test hopefully we will get lucky and get a strong positive, I'll be thinking of you. Good luck xxx

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Kaylon in reply toBaileysmith

I'll be thinking of you too. Are you testing on Saturday? Our test day is Friday but we will wait until Sat morning. It will be too much of a rush in the morning on Fr before work and I just couldn't go into work if it's not good news. Only 5 more days xxx

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Baileysmith in reply toKaylon

Thank you, they've told me to test on Tuesday 24th..wonder why we have different test dates? I know I'm thinking The same I want to wait till the day I'm off as I couldn't face people at work if it's bad news xx

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Kaylon in reply toBaileysmith

Hm yes I wonder. Ours is exactly 14 days after fertilisation on the 6th.

Going to take it Sat morning with my OH and check together. Then we can console each other if it isn't good news. But really hoping it will be xxx

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Tugsgirl

Good luck for your otd. Try and get yourself out of the house in the meantime, especially if the sun is out xx

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Baileysmith in reply toTugsgirl

Thank you, my last two days off so I'm going to enjoy it and get out and about xx

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