7 days post transfer negative test

[Glasscot]

hi,

I had an embryo transfer now 8 days ago. I tested yesterday afternoon at day 7. I wish I hadn’t because it was negative and it’s made me so sad. I am supposed to test on day 10.

I had really sore and swollen boobs a few days ago but that’s disappeared. I have mild cramping and sore lower back which comes and goes. I just feel so hopeless that my period may be coming. It’s so hard to stay positive when I just feel like crying and speaking to no one.

I hope all your journeys are going well during this unbearable time.

[Millbanks]

Hi lovely,

Its so hard because the symptoms are often caused by the meds - so there is really no way of knowing.

However I have seen a lot of people on here getting late positives - you might be lucky.

Hang in there xx

[Glasscot in reply to Millbanks]

Thank you. It’s just so difficult to stay positive. I hope we are lucky but I feel all I do now is hope and it’s always makes the disappointment harder to take xxx

[Millbanks in reply to Glasscot]

It does, but you have to have a bit of hope, otherwise why would you be doing it.

I find that I try to teeter along somewhere between hopeful and negative - it's very hard though xx

[Swimming87]

Hi Glasscot I feel you. I'm in the same position but I didn't test yet. I'm due to test in 3 days. I'm a wreck of anxiety and feeling like this is not worth doing anymore. I'm not sure I'm the right person to cheer you up but just know you're not alone. I am at work and it is so hard. How can women do this? We're truly amazing individuals

[Swimming87 in reply to Swimming87]

Feel free to message me if you wanna vent!

[Glasscot in reply to Swimming87]

Thank you so much for replying. I have no idea how women do it, I feel like I’m hanging on by a thread. I’m working through it too, and it’s so hard to concentrate when you’re an out of anxiety. I feel for you too.

I’m wishing you all the luck in the world xxx

[Swimming87]

Thank you, you too. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger!