Hi everyone,
I really am coming on for a little bit of advice / hope / guidance. I and my partner are 30, we've been trying to conceive for over 4 1/2 years and over 2 of that in the midst of IVF waiting lists etc. We've had two cycles, one no embryo made it to transfer second we got one blast but it was poor quality and sadly didn't transfer. The Drs suspect there is genetic factors at play, and although they can't tell whose gametes it is (or both) given the embryos have failed at such early stages this usually indicates an egg issue.
We are lucky in that we have 3 funded cycles and I know not everyone gets this, but now given our poor results they suggest an egg issue and have suggested donor egg (with my partners gametes) although I was devastated to learn that it's a minimum of 18 months waiting and a further 6 months after fertilisation before any embryo can be transferred. I feel like the journey to this point has been so long that I just can't see past the wait. We can go ahead with my own eggs for the 3rd cycle but this very much would appear to be against the Drs advice and likely to be unsuccessful anyways which as you all know is so hard to manage.
Sorry I know this is more of a rant than a question but I really would love to hear your experiences, and if people have managed such a long wait... again... and Ofcourse getting your head around donor eggs etc.
Thank you all 🫶