devastated tested this morning got a BFN again.

[Miaow1975]

wondering if I should keep taking meds for a couple more days and test again as today is day 12 since transfer or am I clutching at straws? Anyone else had late success?

[Greenleaves1]

Hi - I'm in the same boat this morning - negative at 10DP5DT. I've asked clinic to stop the meds today.

I'm sorry it didn't work for you xx

[Miaow1975 in reply to Greenleaves1]

I’m really sorry it’s not worked for you too, it just leaves you with so many questions as you think you do everything right and get no explanation as to why it hasn’t worked. I feel so frustrated ☹️

[Hopingforamiracle90]

neither of you have done anything wrong so please don’t beat yourselves up. One of my clinics nurses explained it best, you just have to roll a 6 on the dice. You may get one first roll or it may take a few. You can do everything right and it still just not work and that’s not on you. I’ve been in this situation many times and this explanation really helped me, wishing you both luck for next time x

[Doodlebug23 in reply to Hopingforamiracle90]

This explanation is great. It took me 7 rolls of the dice to roll a 6. I had even started revisiting my school maths to figure out if the previous roll of the dice affected the next one 🙈 Miaow1975 don’t reply if you’re offended but just wondered if you were born in 1975?

[Miaow1975 in reply to Doodlebug23]

Hi Doodlebug and sorry it took you 7 rolls of the dice but glad to hear you got there. We only have 1 more frozen embryo so we need to roll a 4 next time as it will be our last attempt. As for your question yes you guessed right I was born in 1975 🙂

[Doodlebug23 in reply to Miaow1975]

Just have to keep going don’t you. 7th transfer was my last 2 embryos (DE) from second round.

Sending you positive sticky vibes and tons of 👶🏼 ✨

I’m a 1976 baby that’s why I asked! 😁

[Miaow1975 in reply to Hopingforamiracle90]

Thank you for your supportive response and that’s a great way of looking at it. Let’s hope the dice are on my side next time xx