Hello!
For context, I have a history of early recurrent miscarriages (3 last year), and a toddler. We have now been trying for 18 months, first 8 months with MCs and nothing last 10 months. I have an extremely low amh 1.75 pmol/l, so I was told I should move to IVF. I am due to start IVF medications next month, but we kept trying naturally. I had no symptoms this cycle until yesterday morning (dpo 9) I got headache, so I thought I'd test, fully expecting nothing as with none of my pregnancies I had bfp until dpo 10-11 (I tested since early) and also lack of symptoms is uncommon for me. There was a shadow, that this morning (dpo 10) is faint line. Dpo is from bbt and opks and cm, so should be fairly accurate.I have to start progesterone, aspirin and clexane from bfp I think.
I am oddly calm, with moments of anxiety and being scared. I think it hasn't hit me yet and when it does, I think I'll miscarry again. It has been 10 months since my last miscarriage, so my memories are not as raw.
I am not sure what the next few days/weeks will bring. I don't know if I should start the medications now, it doesn't feel real but also I don't want to sustain too early when it's going to fail, and mess up my cycles. But I think I will start medications as I feel this little embryo could use with some luck. Very mixed emotions, I know it hasn't hit me yet and I'll be a mess. Also I'm thinking whether I just start meds and stop testing.
Please reach out, I need some handholding (and probably more in the next few weeks).