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I can’t stop blubbering, I’m in total shock! I got (I think!!) a faint BFP this morning at 12 DPO after I’d given up hope. I was crying just waiting for the test to work!

This was our one last shot (the natural way!!) before we start down-regging for our next FET. No drugs. After 5 years of trying. ❤️🧡💛💚💙

And here it is... a beautiful faint line!!

Can you see it?? It’s a cross, right? I think... oh my goodness embie, please stick around! Please, please, please 🙏🙏🙏🤞

I hope today is a wonderful & lucky day for all of you lovely lady warriors!!!

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I can see it! And if natural, 12 days P.O. is still pretty early- it will get darker over the next couple of days I’m sure. Congratulations!

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Wishfully in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie

Thank you! My last two IVF both ended in chemical pregnancy, so I am praying so hard that this one is different. My first ever natural BFP 💛 😳

Oh my goodness, there must be something in the air today, you got your BFP too!! Congratulations!!! After so much darkness, perhaps there is hope after all. Fingers crossed these little beans stick around xxx

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Lizzielizzielizzie in reply to Wishfully

There’s been a little run of positives, i am hoping it continues for everyone.

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Wishfully in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie

Me too!

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Becky179

Ahh congratulations!! I don't think its that faint either. Lets hope its a sticky one for you! 🤞🥚. Xxx

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Wishfully in reply to Becky179

Thank you Becky179 😊 I’m in shock! Need to chill out because I know this is only the first hurdle, but wow, I’m so happy! I think you started this little roll of BFPs 😉... Fingers crossed the luck continues 🤞

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Becky179 in reply to Wishfully

Im so happy for you! Lovely little pressies from the Easter bunny for us all 🐰 I'm glad I started a good trend 🤣! I also can't relax, phoned my clinic yesterday, 1st scan on 23rd. Now is when my nerves will really kick in. Luckily they said they will give me extra scans this time. To try and keep my stress at bay... lol i wish! Fingers crossed for you & do keep in touch xxx

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Cinderella5

Congratulations!xx

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Wishfully in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you Cinderella5 - I hope your thyroid is settling in the run up to your FET. Wishing you all the luck in the world x

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Cinderella5 in reply to Wishfully

Getting there, very slowly thank you!!xx

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KDA0510

Amazing! Congratulations to you 😀💕 So many bfps - hoping this magic stays in the air for our ivf later this month🤞🏽

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Wishfully in reply to KDA0510

Thank you KDA0510 - I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you too x

Brilliant news so thrilled for you. 🎉🎉🎉All the best with the pregnancy hope it goes smoothly 😘❤️ xoxo

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Thank you jess1981 , I hope your referral to the endo specialist goes well x

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Tugsgirl

This is amazing xx

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Wishfully in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you so much Tugsgirl, it just feels so improbable after so long trying, so I am chuffed to bits and hoping so hard that it sticks around. Maybe there is hope! I hope you are feeling ok, sending hugs out to you xx

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Tugsgirl in reply to Wishfully

Did you feel any different this time? xx

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Wishfully in reply to Tugsgirl

It’s the first time I’ve ever had a natural BFP, so it did feel a little different actually - probably more subtle, as I wasn’t filling myself up with extra progesterone. I was acutely aware of the early “symptoms” in the first 5 days which we’re entirely attributed to my natural cycle - so I was really looking out for something distinct... The main sign was I that started waking up at 5am, from 6dpo onwards. Every single day, regardless of bedtime & being immediately wide awaken. I was convinced this was a sign because I hate mornings! But I was testing negative up to now on the ClearBlue Digital - no faint line to scrutinise, just a flat “not pregnant” with a proported high % of accuracy... so I genuinely believed that I was out & going slowly mad. So happy 😊

Woo hoo. Well done xx

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Thank you Camillage xx I’m so saddened to hear about your chemical pregnancy - early losses are just so heartbreaking. This was the first time I ovulated after an early loss in Jan / Feb & by some miracle we have a natural BFP. I’m convinced that it sort of kick-started my body into putting a bit more effort into TTC! I hope this sticks around & I hope the theory is right & works for you next round! Best of luck to you xx

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Thank you xx

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Amanda86

Can definitely see a clear positive! Congratulations 😀 xxx

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Wishfully in reply to Amanda86

Whoop!! 🤗

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Wishfully. Fabulous news. Well done! Lots of love. Diane

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Wishfully in reply to DianeArnold

Thank you so much DianeArnold ! X

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Smang

I definitely see it!! Yayyy I’m so excited for you. Congratulations xxx

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Wishfully in reply to Smang

Thank you Smang ... I kept staring at & wasn’t sure if I could see the second line just because I wanted to see it so much 😂. I hope the rest of your 2WW whizzes by & that you get your BFP! xx

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Smang in reply to Wishfully

Thank you! I’m loving all the BFPs today I’m feeling so excited for all of you. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy xx

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megad26

Congratulations 🌈

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Wishfully in reply to megad26

Thank you megad26 x I hope you get a good result with your egg fertilisation 🤞 - 11 is such a good number at collection, such a good start to the process! Best of luck to you xx

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Leesara

Fingers crossed 🤞 for you congratulations

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Wishfully in reply to Leesara

Thank you Leesara x

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Orla9298

Ahhhh fingers crossed this is it for you!xxx

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Wishfully in reply to Orla9298

Thank you & I my goodness, I hope so 🤞

Oh my goodness yes I can see it! 🤞🏽 really praying it stays for you!!! Xx congratulations hun! Xxx

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Yay!! Thank you! I feel like there is some light at the end of the tunnel 🙌 It is going to be a torturous wait now with regular checking of pants!!! I hope you are feeling ok, this whole process can be quite isolating, can’t it? Sending you big hugs xx

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I’ve just newly started out on this journey of ttc (I’m still trying to learn what all these letters mean haha) but yeah it did become quite isolating after a few months of disappointments . But the stories on here honestly have lifted my spirits and hopes!

Oooh the pant checking is my best friend lol!

I’m so happy for you x keep us updated x take good care of yourself

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Autumnmoon

Fabulous! Hoping all goes well for you x

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Wishfully in reply to Autumnmoon

Thank you Autumnmoon x

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Congratulations lovely 💟💟😘

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Wishfully in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Thank you AllWeNeedIsluv x I’m so pleased that your pregnancy is progressing so well & that you got to see your jelly bean baby! X

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Wishfully

Thanks hun, not long and you'll get to see yours too xx

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KatVonB

Congrats ☺️☺️deffo positive 😘🧚🏼‍♀️

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emu2016

I see it!! I definitely see it! x

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Wishfully in reply to emu2016

🤗 xx

Congratulations xxx

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