I am due my 3rd transfer next Tuesday after the first two have failed, all since November. And I need some advice! My sister in law is running the London Marathon on the Sunday, so 4 dpt.
Should I cancel going up there to support her and watch? It’s something she’s only going to do once - but obviously our journey comes first! The tricky thing is neither of our families know we are going through IVF so we will have to make up an excuse!
let me know what you ladies would do, thank you xxxx
Hi Thierry,
Obviously the choice is totally up to you but if it was me.. I’d go and see her. It would be a good distraction and as we all know.. the 2ww can drive you crazy if you don’t keep yourself busy!
Just take it easy and look after yourself! X
I would go…..it will be a happy distraction and no risk to your transfer. No need not to really, the walking won’t be any detriment as far as I am aware x
I agree. My clinic have encouraged walking as it increases blood flow to the uterus x
Hi lovely,
I would go, but plan where you are going to be and plan your route to get there.
It can be so busy and stressful and you can end up walking far!
I would recommend going to Cannon Street and walking straight down the hill to the course (about 3 mins walk) there's usually a good space and it's near a bridge in case it rains! It's about mile 23 I think
Enjoy xx
go support your sister, the atmosphere will be great and it will help you get through the waiting! Being out in the fresh air and the walk will help with blood flow too but have a back up incase you get tired, all the very best
2nd transfer after 1 transfer fail
ivf embryo transfer 1st Nov after 1 failed attempt
Transfer done 🤞🙏
Third transfer 
Transfer Day 🥚❄️
