Another transfer after miscarriage

[Babyluck95]

Hi, just as the title says really, I had my first ever transfer and at 9 weeks I went for a private early scan and they told me there was no heartbeat and it was measuring 7 weeks, 3 days which they said I had a missed miscarriage and had to get miscarriage medical assistants, (i opted for the tablets) I have an appointment on the 3rd of June to discuss transferring our second but last one from our nhs cycle and I'm absolutely petrified that this will happen again, I feel like I might make myself lose the baby if I get pregnant again because how anxious I will be, it was such a horrible time for me and my partner, well anyhow I would just like to Hear anyone's success stories after going through this or even unsuccessful stories as I would like to know realistic chances and outcomes, thank you all

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Babyluck. I am so sorry to hear this, my love. I do hope you both have plenty of support just now. Perhaps next time you will need more progesterone support and perhaps a blood thinner. I feel positive you will overcome this and become the parents you so want to be. Thinking of you. Diane

[Babyluck95 in reply to DianeArnold]

hi Dianearnold thank you for your reply, yeah I think they might but then I don't know if they could give me anymore than what I had before as at first I was on utrogestan pesseries and they then had to give me cyclogest anal ones because my progestrone was a little bit low, do you know anymore they could give me? It's such a roller coaster this ivf process but I know we're all going through it together x

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to Babyluck95]

Hi. Not really, just as suggested before. Diane

[Babyluck95 in reply to DianeArnold]

OK thank you 😊 x

[RedFox23]

Hi baby luck, I had a miscarriage in January and only now feel strong enough to have another transfer. Take your time to recover, your Frostie will be waiting for you when you’re mentally feeling strong enough. For this cycle I’ve added clexane, probiotics and more Intralipids. It might not make a difference but it’s made me feel better knowing I’m doing all I can for it to be successful! Best of luck x

[Babyluck95 in reply to RedFox23]

Hi redfox, I'm so sorry you had to go through this also, it's like we're so happy at the start and then it just all comes tumbling down, I know we all know what could happen but it's just when it's you it's still so hard! Losing a baby is never easy of course, I will mention this to my fertility nurse and see what they say, anything that will be different will give me peice of mind, thank you and I truly hope this one is your time! ❣️

[MrsOrangejuice]

Sorry this has happened. I saw you mentioned progesterone and after two early losses on fresh transfers we added lubion injections and that transfer (a FET) worked, so ask your clinic about that, especially if your progesterone was on the low side. I also had a later loss last year (10 weeks, needed surgery) and have since gone on to have another successful pregnancy so even though the losses are crushing and it makes you very anxious, it doesn't mean it will happen again or that your next transfer won't work. Also my successful FET was the month after the second loss so you can go again quickly if you're mentally and physically able, but as you have frosties it's not urgent as they're made and don't age and you could take the time you need to recover. Finally, the anxiety is horrible but it will make zero difference to the outcome - I have tested that theory to the max - so just accept it's natural to worry, especially after what you've been through and don't stress about stress, just take that off your plate.

[Babyluck95 in reply to MrsOrangejuice]

Hi mrsorangejuice, firstly I wanna say I'm very sorry for all your losses, it really doesn't get any easier does it 😔, also I have heard of lubion before from other people's posts on here, definitely worth mentioning something to our fertility clinic, as for the timing I definitely want to get straight onto the wagon again after our holiday as we will hopefully be feeling refreshed and ready hopefully, I completely understand people's choices to wait a while afterwards but I got so used to the idea of becoming a mummy even at that early stage I just can't bare to wait at least for this cycle anyway, it's also really good to hear your outcomes of successful pregnancies even though there has been hard times between for you, I really appreciate your reply and I hope your enjoying your lovely babies, ❣️

[Asha82]

Hi, I'm so sorry you had to go through the heartbreak, I had a missed miscarriage last year in May I was 9 weeks when I found out and I did another cycle 2 months later and I'm now holding my 7 week old son so it definitely can happen after a miscarriage, I wish you all the best for future cycles

[Babyluck95]

Asha82, oh wow congratulations first of all, it's so good to hear a positive outcome after all this misery, could I ask if you did anything different that round to the last one? As I would like to know all the options available of course, thank you for your reply xx