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Such mixed emotions, I can feel my period is on its way which means we will be starting the medication soon in preparation for transfer number 3. I am so much less hopeful than I was going into the first 2 rounds, how do I keep positive when so far it’s been so heartbreaking.

Sending everyone lots of love x

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Yellowlove

I felt exactly like this before my third transfer, just going through the motions. Then suddenly on the day the excitement and hope came back. That was the one that worked for me. Currently 27.5 weeks

Good luck and baby dust to you!!! You just never know until test day, could be lucky number 3 for you too! x

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Thierry101 in reply to Yellowlove

Thank you!!! Xx

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Twiglet2

its normal to start to protect yourself at this stage by being a bit detached at the ‘process’ but once you are booked in for transfer day you will be all excited to see yit little embryo go back where it belongs I’m sure 💜🤗 good luck! Xx

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Thierry101 in reply to Twiglet2

Thank you so much xx

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Doodlebug23

It’s so hard to stay positive when it’s so heartbreaking when it doesn’t work. I was super positive for my last transfer (6) and BFN ☹️

I’m sending luck and 👶🏼 ✨ your way 💖

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Thierry101 in reply to Doodlebug23

Thank you so much xx

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Thierry101 in reply to Doodlebug23

thank you so much xx

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MiniMe23

Here’s hoping 3 is the magic number!

Although it’s completely normal to feel that way. I’m sure once you start meds and get closer to your transfer the excitement and hope will return. Wishing you lots of success that this is your time x

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Thierry101 in reply to MiniMe23

Thank you so much xx

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NL2019

I’m having my third transfer in the morning, and agree I’ve definitely been going through be motions and a little more disconnected from it all this round but thinks it’s just the only way to protect ourselves! I will be honest I think the way I’ve been feeling has changed today and I am excited for the tomorrow! Hopefully it’s 3rd time lucky for us both 🤞🏻xx

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