3 more sleeps until transfer

[destiny121]

Omg... can’t believe transfer is in 3 days. Im so nervous but also excited but really trying not to over think and go with the flow. Just done me shopping... never spent so much on nuts before let alone organic lol.... just gotta get my pineapples and fresh greens in. Booked the 2ww wait off work so just planning on going for nice walks, watch some box sets and maybe a bit of shopping.... anyone else transferring this thursday? Oh and just booked my accupuncrure sessions for Wednesday and thursday... i prayer this all works and hopefully and i prayer my lil embabies survive the thaw.... wheres everyone else at xxx

[KW83]

Good luck lovely! Will have fingers crossed for you. I have my op for tube removal on the 23rd (quietly terrified!) and know you had that done a little while ago so have been following your journey. Really hope your embies thaw OK and the transfer goes well x

[destiny121 in reply to KW83]

Hi my lovely, how are you doing? I cant quite believe im having transfer on thursday... its been so long but now feels so quick. I remember how nervous i was back in march leading up to tube removal and it has to be one of the most stessful times i went through. But knowing that on this transfer there will be no horrible liquid to damage my embryos gives me so much hope. Try not to dwell on your tube removal.... its all for the best and one step closer to our babies. Good luck my dear it will all be fine... and thats coming from someone whose actually done it xxxx

[KW83 in reply to destiny121]

Thank you. Most of the time my logical brain knows it is a positive step in the right direction, but it's still hard sometimes to get to grips with knowing there will never be a spontaneous baby. Knowing there are ladies like you who have gone through it, and lots with success stories, keeps me going and I hope provides you with positivity and hope too. All the best xxx

[destiny121 in reply to KW83]

I know how you feel.... being able to get that surprise pregnancy.... we have to deal the fact our journey is different but thank you god we were born in an era where it is still possible with some assistance and for that i have to give thanks every day. Xxx

[KW83 in reply to destiny121]

You're absolutely right - we try to remind ourselves of that 😊

[Becca21]

That's good news I'd say... you're one step closer to success perhaps! It's only natural to overthink, get nervous and to panic at this time... even after so may FET's I guess I'd do the same when I go for mine next week. But just try keep a check on negative emotions for now... right through the FET as well as after that while your embie latches and grows. A balanced state of psycho-physio state is much needed and helps in the whole gestation. Wish you luck and do keep us updated!

[destiny121 in reply to Becca21]

Ohh good luck to you hun. I know exactly what you mean. Im trying to stay focused and relaxed and remaining positive as i know stress can affect the success. Im also trying to remain hopeful but know that ivf can and does work but that also it cannot work too. So just got to prayer, eat well and and relax xxx how many embies do you have? Are u transferring 1/2 im going for 2 this round eeeeek!! Xx

[Hidden]

Hiya, I had my FET on Friday and the 2WW is already driving me crazy!

I'm quite similar to you, I also had to remove my tubes due to fluid before starting IVF. Good luck with your FET on Thurs, fingers crossed for a BFP for both of us xx

[destiny121 in reply to Hidden]

Ohh wow... when is otd?? Throwing all the baby dust in the world to you xxx

[Bumble26]

Best of luck! I'll be thinking of you.

[LanaTerene]

Hey, there! How are you? I hope you're fine! Exciting times, I'm sure! Good luck to you. Keep the faith. It'll happen, alright? Don't lose hope!

[destiny121 in reply to LanaTerene]

Ahhh thank you.... xxx

[Caza2009]

Sending you all the luck in the world - hopefully the embies survive the thaw and manage to stick! Sounds like you have a great plan in place too for the 2 week wait - try to relax as much as possible xxx

[Hidden]

Thank you hun, you too OTD is 18th July but as I have regular periods I should be starting between Weds and Fri this week which is the ultimate test for me! If I'm lucky enough to make it to the 18th without a period then things would definitely be looking good! xx

[destiny121 in reply to Hidden]

Im sure you’ll make it through... everything crossed for you xxxx

[Hidden in reply to destiny121]

Thanks crossing fingers for you too hun xxx