Hi everyone,I'm so pleased to have found this group and to be able to see I'm not alone on this journey. No one I know in person can understand what it's like and I find it very hard talking to anyone, even my husband.
I had my first AMH test in February 2022, I was 37 then, it came back as 8.5 and we were approved for the NHS funding (AMH has to be above 5.4 for that). I had my first IVF cycle this past spring, 2 embryos, 1 failed transfer, 1 miscarriage. However disheartening the loss was, we could then see a pregnancy was possible and we were determined to do another round (we were eligible for 2 on the NHS). Our clinic tested the AMH again this September as it is a requirement for the NHS funding, and it came back as 3.8! It was an absolute shock. Not only do we now have to put all of our life savings into this, but we also know our chances are much much lower this time. We both feel like we can't stop now, we have to try one more time, otherwise we will regret it for the rest of our lives.
I'm still trying to wrap my mind around the AMH drop. It's not normal. I haven't really had any massive life changes since the first test, if anything I've only got healthier (aaand turned 38 🙄). However, between the two tests, I had the most stress of my entire life, including a death in the family, the fertility treatment itself, the first heartbreaking failed transfer and the crushing miscarriage. I'm wondering if this could be stress-related? Google is vague on this. Might be just the age. Has anyone experienced a sudden AMH drop? Or not qualified for the NHS funding? Hugs to every one of you xx
UPD My repeat AMH two weeks later came back as 3.2. We are now considering doing a multi-cycle IVF package (2 cycles, unlimited transfers) at our clinic, which will hopefully save us some money in the long run. Thank you to everyone who commented and good luck to us all xx