Negative on Clear Blue ultra early digital at 10dp5dt. Am I out?

[Babysteps41]

I tested yesterday and got BFN on CB ultra early digital....so disappointed as this is third FET after two fails.

My Beta is Monday, which will be 13dp5dt...any hope?

[LittleBlueOwl]

I am really sorry, it is looking that way. Sending hugs. Although I did find CB to be so unreliable, maybe get a FRER just to be sure? You still have three more days so it could just be a late implanter. I have heard stories where the line came in late. My husband always said it's not over until test day. xxx

[Babysteps41 in reply to LittleBlueOwl]

Ah thanks for responding❤️...yea I think we are out as I've been here before.....I can't get my hands on a FRER anyway, but maybe don't wanna... I'll just wait for BETA as our clinic only accept their own test results. We'd transfered two very good embryos...it's so sad... We've 3 left but I'm not sure we have it in us to go through this again..I'm 41, being doing IVF for 3 years .. I've never seen a positive ever.😪

[Weegran20 in reply to Babysteps41]

Don’t give up hope , give yourselves time ! You still have hope with the other embryos . Try acupuncture !

[ToffeeLou]

Hey babysteps41 I’m afraid I can’t offer any words of comfort as I’m in exactly the same boat (3 gets, 2 with one eggs, 1 with donor all negative) so just wanted you to know you’re not alone. It’s emotionally gruelling but hopefully one day it will all be worth it. Sending hugs x

[chrysalily]

Hi Babysteps41,

I feel you. I just lost our 2nd FET a couple of days ago (this is our 4th IVF cycle - 1 fresh transfer and 2 FET) and we have 5 more embryos in the bank. All this in 2 years. I know it felt hard but I think you should not give up. You are resilient and you are strong. Our dream is there but we need to keep going. Take a break and grieve. Go for a short holiday. Give your body and mind the love it needs. Put yourself first and pamper yourself. Then get back on the saddle. I’m in the same boat and will be doing the same. You will get that rainbow fairy dust soon. I know we all will. 🤗