FET#3 Preparing

[Hiramunir78]

FET#1: unsuccessful day5; 5AA

FET#2: Successful , day6; 4AA and 4AB

FET#3: Preparing

Hi, My 3rd FET is started. Lucrin injection is injected. I am on provera to bring my periods. It's a very stressful procedure.

I got 5 embryos left:

5day embryos

4AA

5BA

3AA and 3AB

6day Embryos

5BA

How you manage your 1.5 years old with transfer. I am getting anxiety attacks. It looks like i am starting this procedure from a scratch.

Please tell me which embryo should i transfer. If God wants to do It will happen. I want to be positive.

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Hiramunir. Well, I would speak to your embryologist for his/her advice on which one to transfer. Accept any counselling sessions that are on offer and keep busy. You can do this, and hopefully the next one will be the one that has been waiting. Try eating pineapple core too. Good luck. Diane

[Hidden in reply to DianeArnold]

Hi Diane

Does pineapple core help with implantation?

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to Hidden]

Hi. It apparently helps to ensure good blood circulation and helps to prevent blood clotting. Diane

[Twiglet2]

your embryologist will decide the best next embryo to transfer. What issues are you having with prep and having a little one already? I time my injections and pessaries for when he goes to bed or before he gets up and give myself a time out to count to 10 if I feel my patience getting thin when on stims 😂 but other than that I’ve just went about life normally defo lean on your other half where you can xx

[Fruitandflowers]

I've just had my second FET and I have a 15mnth old from my first FET. The embryologist chose which embryos to transfer both times and my clinic has a policy of not telling you the grading, they just said they were good enough quality to freeze. That's actually helped as it's not my decision or something for me to worry about. I think you're worrying about the transfer day itself? Usually it's a very quick process and I was in the clinic this time about an hour and a half. Do you have someone who could look after your baby for a few hours, or maybe half a day so you can rest a bit before and after? You've had success once and there's no reason it won't be successful again x

[Hiramunir78 in reply to Fruitandflowers]

I am still afraid. Beacuse i don't know how to manage with baby. Baby is 15 months old and before sleeping he want breast feed. Even if he don't get milk he suck and sleep.

[Fruitandflowers in reply to Hiramunir78]

Do you mean you're worried just for the day of the transfer? If so, maybe someone could come with you and take the baby just for the transfer - we did that when I had an egg collection, my husband waited in a side room with the baby. If it's more about managing generally, it may be best to post your queries on the Pregnancy Support Forum on here - they're also very supportive x