It’s 6dp5dt and a BFN this morning. I honestly don’t need to be told it’s early to test (I know). I feel like I’m going mad though and wracking my brains as to what has happened in previous cycles. I used to have a trigger shot before transfer which I haven’t had this round so just stark whites all the way. No point to this post really other than it just doesn’t seem to get easier does it? It just torments me all the time. Will obviously keep testing but my brain is trying to manage expectations. My husband is very positive so trying to take a leaf out of his book. Need to buck up so I can get through the working day 🙄. Thoughts as always, to all those going through the same. IVF is just the worst 😢.
Lots of love IVF warriors
Xx
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It's soo hard isn't it not to test early try no to test now when is ur actual test date? Keep positive keep busy that's the only thing I could do wishing u all the luck and baby dust x
Ahh ok did they jus tell u to take a test or do u go in it's crazy how every clinic is different well u got more time to cook keeping fingers crossed for you x
there’s nothing wrong with testing early lovely 😊 test as much as you want to to help you, it’s whatever works for you 🤗 it is still a bit early though for it to mean that’s the actual result! Quite a few days for it to turn around. Fingers and toes crossed for you xx
hi hifer, don’t feel bad for testing early- you gotta do what you gotta do! Have my fingers crossed that it does change over the next few days but hope you get your answer very soon too 🤞🏽I always used to test on 9dpt to know before OTD so I had a few days to prepare myself before speaking to the clinic. Sending lots of luck your way xxx
Oh love, it's so hard isn't it - I always try to tell myself "what will be will be".... but it doesn't make it any easier. At least if things don't change you'll be prepared. And if they do, then that's fabulous.
I have seen people who test negative early on then go on to have successful pregnancies, but I know that you just get a gut feeling, so don't want to give false hope.
Awww ffs! I know how this feels as you know and I know you know this but I'm gonna say it anyway....you've got a few days!🤞🏻 The trigger shot is just an extra way of getting more progesterone into you and its down to clinics which ones do it. This is the worst effing journey, it never gets better and just thinking about it....well I just think you're the bravest!!💪🏻😘 Lots of love honey.xxx
Aw my lovely I know it's so hard that 2ww, sometimes the mind makes our thinking think we have symtoms it's such a testing time! Don't make yourself feel bad for testing that's OK, you do what you need to to help you get through the waiting. Yes hopefully this is far too early for you and your positive is just around the corner 🙏 xxx
I know how you feel - I hit a wall on day 4/5. Currently on 10dp5dt and can't bear to test. Been told to do a home test on 14dpt. I feel like the worst version of myself - irritable, frustrated but convinced it's worked / dreading the potential loss.
Thinking of you and wishing you a good next few days xxx
You too. Sadly negative today too so I’m pretty sure I’m out. That doesn’t mean you are too. I’ve just never had a positive post 7 days. My clinic won’t do a beta before OTD 😞. Wishing you absolutely all the best. Please keep us posted 🍀 xx
awww hope you’re doing ok. It is totally the worst! The rollercoaster of emotions, the waiting, the testing! I totally get it all! Don’t beat yourself up about testing. It’s impossible not to. You know it’s early though so you’re not out of it yet. Sending positive vibes your way and will be keeping everything crossed for a positive 🤞🏼xx
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