have to have d&C done feeling heartbroken

[Asha82]

Hi! I just had my second scan and the baby had stopped growing and hasn't got a heartbeat I have to have a d&C done, I am feeling absolutely heartbroken, life can be unfair, I will be doing one last cycle in 3 months as I can't afford to do more after that, we have 4 frozen embryo's but unfortunately I can only use 2 of them in 3 months xx

[lianm8]

I’ve seen a few of your posts and I’m so sorry this has happened to you 😥 this journey is heartbreaking at times. I hope you have love and support around you. Xx

[Asha82 in reply to lianm8]

Thank you, I have my awesome fiancee my adult children and my parents so I have lots of support but the heartbreak is so hard to cope with xx

[Star241]

I’m so sorry it is heartbreaking please look after yourself and take time to come to terms with it lots of love ❤️

[Asha82 in reply to Star241]

Thank you I'm trying but it's really hard, luckily I can do one more double embryo frozen cycle in 3 months so that keeps me going❤️

[Star241 in reply to Asha82]

it is really hard, sorry you have to go through this xx

[Asha82 in reply to Star241]

That's ok and thank you xx

[butterfliez]

so sorry for your loss, so unfair and devastating. sending you strength and take time to digest the news and hope you have good support and care around you xx

[Asha82 in reply to butterfliez]

Thank you so much I really appreciate it, I have lots of support and I'm struggling but I will be ok because I can do one more double embryo frozen cycle in 3 months so that keeps me going xx

[butterfliez in reply to Asha82]

It is always better when you have a plan ahead to focus on to get you through I do understand that , also make sure you take care of yourself and take each step at a time so you are able to grieve the loss of your baby. It can all be such a shock. xx

[Asha82 in reply to butterfliez]

Yes it's a horrible shock losing my baby that I was so excited about, I just really hope that next time will be successful xx

[Nenad]

I’m so sorry Asha, it’s especially hard when your body wants to hold onto the pregnancy. Take your time to recover physically and emotionally, your health is most important. Will be thinking of you xxx

[Asha82 in reply to Nenad]

Thank you so much, it's very heartbreaking, the only thing keeping me going is doing another double embryo frozen cycle so I have lots of hope, I'm hoping now that I stopped the ivf medications that I will naturally miscarry so I don't have to have it surgically removed, we just did a fresh double embryo transfer so next time will be the first time we will do a frozen cycle with 2 embryo's in 3 months xx

[Nenad in reply to Asha82]

yes I hope so too. When the progesterone levels drop this signals the body to miscarry. Keeping everything crossed for you.

I’ve found frozen cycles a lot easier on the body personally xx

[Asha82 in reply to Nenad]

Thank you, yeah that's good I definitely look forward to the frozen cycle xx

[Elmo13]

Hi Asha. Have been following your situation hoping for some positive news. I’m so very sorry to read this and what you’re going through. The same thing happened to me last year and it was devastating.

Take care and feel what you feel and do what you must. As you said, there is still hope with your frozen embryos even though that doesn’t take away the pain and heartache you’re going through.

X

[Asha82 in reply to Elmo13]

Thank you so much, it's definitely heartbreaking, I have lots of hope for the double embryo frozen cycle in 3 months but it's definitely hard to cope as my body thinks I'm still pregnant xx

[DinaG1971]

sorry to hear that. Very sorry. Maybe the quality of the embryo wasn't good enough to continue growing

[Asha82 in reply to DinaG1971]

Thank you, it was probably genetically abnormal

[DinaG1971 in reply to Asha82]

Don't worry!

[Winniebear1]

I am so sorry for your sad news.

Take care, sending lots of strength and good vibes for your next chapter.

I really hope it brings you what you long for

X

[Asha82 in reply to Winniebear1]

Thank you I really appreciate it, I'm really hoping the double embryo frozen cycle will be successful that's the only thing that's helping me cope right now x

[Winniebear1 in reply to Asha82]

I have everything crossed for you x

[Asha82 in reply to Winniebear1]

Thank you I really appreciate it x

[Hidden]

very sorry to hear what you’ve gone through. Praying and wishing you strength and luck moving forwards. Do take some time out and be kind to yourself x

[Asha82 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you I appreciate it x