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hello warriors

I posted a week ago as my hcg was on low

Side, unfortunately it rose slowly

Today got confirmed ectopic - took 2 consultants to find it

Iโ€™m now waiting for surgery

I donโ€™t know what the point of this post is really

Just feel so sad and scared ๐Ÿ˜Ÿ xx

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Hopeful1981

I am so sorry you are going through this. It My first tf had low rising beta and it was hell. It was my 5th miscarriage and by far the worst mentally. Thinking of you. Look after yourself.

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DG2022โ€ข in reply toHopeful1981

it is. I thought I caught it early enough for injection but they said itโ€™s too late ๐Ÿ˜ž

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Bunny29

So sorry to hear this, sending lots of love ๐Ÿ’• xx

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Hopeful1981

they knew early on for me too but to adhere to hospital guidelines I was almost 10 weeks when I had a d&c. Take care of yourself.

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DG2022โ€ข in reply toHopeful1981

that must have been hell ๐Ÿ˜ž Iโ€™m 7 weeks

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AuroraXen

Oh love I'm so sorry. This is just awful news heartbroken for you ๐Ÿ’” Sending lots of love at an awful time x

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Candlewax3

So sorry to hear this darling. Iโ€™ve been there twice both at 7 weeks, there is nothing anyone can say to make it better. But you are a strong warrior and you will get through this. Sending you so much love and strength x

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DG2022

thank you all xx

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Ell493

So sorry ๐Ÿ’” xx

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mmmangos

I'm so sorry ๐Ÿ˜ž it is devastating news. Sending hugs even though I don't know you! I'm not sure what kind of surgery you're having and everyone responds to pain differently, but the only thing I can say that might help is when they discharge you from hospital make sure you have adequate pain meds to last you at least 3 days. I hope you have good support physically and mentally to start to heal after this sad time x

Iโ€™m so sorry, sending love โค๏ธ xxxx

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Lovemusic1

I'm so sorry to hear this. Remember it is ok to grieve for as long as you need to. There is no right or wrong way to get over the loss of a baby. Give yourself time and lots of self care as well. If you have a partner make sure you work together to get yourselves through it. x

I am so very sorry for your news. I have experienced 2 ectopic pregnancies - 1 was medically managed and 2nd was removed via surgery along with a Fallopian tube. I donโ€™t feel there are any words that will make anything feel better but the doctors were amazing when I had the surgery and obviously aside from the emotional side of loss and grief, the actual surgery was manageable (it was my first ever procedure). Please take good care of yourself. Xx

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JustJane1234

So sorry. Sending so much love and hugs to you โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

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Ajtart

I'm so sorry. Thinking of you today xx

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FlowerGem115

Sorry to hear this news. I have been there myself with an ectopic too around 6 weeks and had surgery to remove a tube, it is really tough time.Give yourself time to heal, rest and rely on your close family and friends if you can. Xx

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hello all. I had surgery yesterday, was first on the list thankfully. Woke up in pain and felt so sick but with anti sickness drug I was back to sleep in no time. Thankfully they only removed one tube- apparently everything else looked healthy, and no sign of polycystic ovaries (which is something Iโ€™ve always been told I had). The doctor recommended not to have a natural pregnancy again. This was a miracle after 4 1/2 years so chances of it happening again are slim but you never know. So going to recover now, have some nice things booked in then we start to think about IVF again.

Ive learnt a lot from this. Not to wait and advocate yourself. I should have pushed things earlier not wait for GP appointment. I knew something wasnโ€™t right. And Iโ€™m much stronger than I give myself credit for although it is okay not to feel strong and to cry too

Love to you all xx

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