BFN

[LuxFleur]

Well that is it for our most recent cycle. No more frosties. I'm supposed to start again right away but I don't know, my 43rd birthday is in less than two months and I have very little hope.

[Hoop123]

I'm so so sorry to hear this 😥 Sending lots of love and support. It's so unfair and you must be feeling very tired xx

[Blueberry211]

I am so sorry 😟 there are no right words to say right now except hang in there xxx

[Cinderella5]

I'm so sorry LuxFleur, it's so hard going through failed cycles and suffering a loss too. I know it's not legal in your country but would you consider travelling to say Spain or Greece to do egg donation? I know it's not for everyone and I dont want you to be offended however I just wondered if it was maybe something to think about. Hugs.xxx

[LuxFleur in reply to Cinderella5]

so you're saying there is no hope for me to have my own biological child, thanks

[Abs37 in reply to LuxFleur]

Sweetheart I don’t think that’s what Cinderella was implying. I don’t want to speak for her but I think she just meant have you considered other options to help you. There is always hope, it’s so difficult I know, I’m now 41 and have had to take a year out and still not sure I’m ready to go back. Wishing you every luck xxx

[Cinderella5 in reply to LuxFleur]

You must know that's not how I meant my comment to sound, I've supported you always.xx

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Sorry to hear that, you can do this though, you are so strong and when you have your baby you will hardly remember these times.. at least that's what I am telling myself and I am 45! Hugs lovely x

[Jrss1]

Aww LuxFleur, I’m so sorry to see this. I was really hoping this was your time. Keep strong, you still have time to get your miracle! You can do this, stay positive. Hugs to you xx

[Hoping20]

So sorry to read your latest update. You have been through a lot over recent years and so I know this result will come as a real blow. Take time to process and please look after yourself. I really hope you have some support around you. Mother’s Day tomorrow - I know it will be a very tough day. Put yourself first and take care x

[Star241]

So sorry 😢 I am almost in a similar position my fresh attempt in feb wasn’t successful and nothing to freeze got a follow up appointment soon not really sure at this point where we go next my thoughts are all over the place xx

[Picalilli99]

Really sorry to hear this. Sending love and hugs ❤️ Xx

[ninieburelli]

I’m so sorry to hear this. I’ve been following your story and know how desperately you wanted it to work. Im 41 and have taken time out from myfailed IVF and now decided to adopt in a few years time - after I’ve got back to being me. It took people asking me if I had considered it to actually consider it. IVF is such a traumatic process. Be kind to yourself. Xx

[Twiglet2]

Sending love, there’s nothing that makes a BFN any easier 😪maybe let the dust settle a bit for a few days and then see how you feel? there’s always hope lovely and as Cinderella said there’s always other options to consider too if you don’t feel like you want to do the same again (although it could defo work as I have seen ladies with success on here at 43 with own eggs) everyone is different xx