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**Sensitive** BFP with DE embryo

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What a rollercoaster!! OTD was Saturday and was so relieved to see a strong set of positive lines. Tested on 3 different tests at 3am…classic early waking 😆.

It’s our 3rd DE transfer. Had a 5AB and 4BB transferred. And now praying that our little one stays put and keeps going.

Obviously I have zero symptoms and am completely freaking out 🤪. Just hope something is still get snuggly and growing well in there 💕

I had a MMC discovered at our viability scan after our 1st DE transfer. It was so traumatic and I’m terrified of it happening again. But…I know I need to stay positive and can’t stop what’s meant to be. Am on aspirin, steroids and loads of progesterone so 🤞🤞

Wish I could go to sleep and wake up in 2 weeks time. Don’t know how I’ll get through the next few weeks 🤪

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Miracle43

Congratulations 🎉

I’m 6dp5dt DE , first one failed I’m so nervous. You have given me hope x

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JenRoy in reply toMiracle43

Please have hope! But you don’t have to feel positive. I know it’s soooooo hard. Our 1st was an MMC and 2nd BFN. I was terrified and very pessimistic this cycle. Keeping everything crossed for you xx

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Miracle43 in reply toJenRoy

Thank you so much 🥰. I don’t know why I’m struggling so much, I’m terrified. I’ve been tempted to test but I can’t.

I’m on low dose steroids and progesterone too.

I’m so excited to see your BFP.. strong lines too. Sending lots of positive vibes.

You’ve got this 💪🏻💫 xx

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JenRoy in reply toMiracle43

😘 Totally understand what you’re terrified. It’s such a huge decision to go through DE treatment and feels like it should work. Keep strong too 💪. You’re doing brilliantly not testing. The times I’ve tested early I’ve massively regretted it. If it positive you worry about a chemical and if negative you’re devastated but hoping for a late positive. Unbelievably stressful!! Sending positive vibes back 💫xx

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Miracle43 in reply toJenRoy

Can I ask how dpt did you test? Xx

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JenRoy in reply toMiracle43

Day 11 x

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JenRoy in reply toMiracle43

You’re 8dp5dt now! Not long to go 🤞💫x

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Miracle43 in reply toJenRoy

Hey lovely, how are you doing? I feel like I’m going insane 🤯 xxx

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JenRoy in reply toMiracle43

The 2ww is just awful! You poor thing. Sending hugs. Hope the next days go quickly. The weather is a nice bonus!!

I’m ok. Just nervously waiting for my 2nd hCG result (hopefully rising well) and then the 1st scan in 12 days. Obviously analysing every symptom (barely any 😆) and trying to stay positive. So much waiting involved in ivf 🤪 xx

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Miracle43 in reply toJenRoy

You’d think I’d be used to the 2ww by now… it gets worse I’m sure.

We’re always waiting for something 🙈😜.

I’ve had a few symptoms the last few days, I know probably progesterone but it hasn’t stopped my mind going overdrive 🤯🤪.

I’m glad you are ok, You will be nervous, you have been through so much. You’re line is really strong, I’m sure the HCG is riding nicely 💫 , let me know how your doing.

Hugs back to you xx

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JenRoy in reply toMiracle43

Nearly there! Hope you’re feeling ok x

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Miracle43 in reply toJenRoy

I’m ok, just nervous 🤦🏼‍♀️ I hope you are doing ok. Thank you for checking in 💖 x

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ZiggyandBC

Congratulations! What fab news, I can imagine how hard it must be to keep that anxiety at bay but it sounds like you’re doing your best which is always enough. Sending you lots of love and congratulations again ☺️❤️

Amazing news lovely!! Super strong lines - looking good! x

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Thinking of you - 2 weeks will pass - keep yourself busy and remember to keep taking your meds as directedTake care

Janet

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Klndmr

These are some beautiful lines! Stay positive and big congratulations from me! ☺️☺️☺️☺️🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🙏🙏🙏🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️

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KiboXX

Congratulations! ❤️ So happy to see this. I know the next two weeks will be tough but you’ve got this 💪🏻 xxx

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Redsequin

Congratulations, lovely! I totally understand the anxiety. Feel free to DM if you want to let it all out over the next few weeks: we are on a similar timeline! xx

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JenRoy in reply toRedsequin

Thank you 😘. I definitely will xx

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luckysb

Congratulations!!! 💚 this is such great news!Wishing you all the best with the next few weeks. I hope you have a lot of distraction activities lined up x

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Sparklylife

Congratulations!! That is fantastic news! I hope all is well on your scan and wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy! 🧡🥰

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Ranchu90

You had 2 embryo transferred, you might have twins as your lines looks really strong. Congratulations 🎉👏

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minnesota_girl

Congratulations! I get it, I wish I could just fast forward through this week until my scan next Tues! But we can't change the outcome, we can just exist through it. And you've got all the meds and support and nice strong lines so 🤞🤞🤞 embryo or (s)! are getting snuggly and happy 💕💕💕

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AuroraXen

This is great! Huge congratulations Lovely, so glad this one has worked for you ❤️ 🎉 xx

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ttcemmie

Congratulations JenRoy!! Such an amazing result! xxx Such an anxious time, but then it all is! You've got a positive! Focus on the positives (ha!) for now. :D

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Picalilli99

Awww so pleased to see this, congratulations! 🎉 I think it’s impossible not to worry (especially based on previous experiences) but you have to just keep telling yourself that this is a completely different pregnancy and there is no reason it won’t work (easier said than done I appreciate 😂). Wishing you the best for your scan lovely xxx

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Shirazlover2013

Ah those are dark lines we all dream of, congratulations! I’m really happy for you!! Xx

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Lovemylion

Yay! Wonderful news! I've been looking out for an update from you as we've both been trying ttc a sibling for about a similar time. Really hope this is your time and you can put the nightmare of IVF behind u. Xxx

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JenRoy in reply toLovemylion

So nice to hear from you! It’s been such a long time trying for a sibling. Thanks so much for your good wishes. Really hoping this is the cycle for us. We threw everything at this one (antibiotics, probiotics, steroid, aspirin, acupuncture, reflexology and fertility nutritionist 🤦‍♀️) so I could feel like I was doing everything I could. It probably made no difference 😂 but I felt more in control which helped emotionally. Hope you’re ok and you get your break through ASAP xx

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Lovemylion in reply toJenRoy

O wow, that's a lot thrown at the cycle. I'll be doing heparin and aspirin for my next transfer as they found antibodies from MC tests but who knows if thatll work. I wanted steroids too but my clinic arent keen at all unless I have specific tests to warrant them. Yes, I can't believe I thought my IVF journey to my son was fairly traumatic but in hindsight was fairly lucky (2nd cycle) in comparison to this sibling business. 😩 O well. Lots of people are in a similar boat. XXX really hope this an uneventful pregnancy for you ❤️

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JenRoy in reply toLovemylion

Total solidarity with the trauma of trying for a sibling. We are so aware we lucked out getting our daughter. Successful 1st round with own eggs. But trying for number two…my god it been tough. It’s great you’re trying something different this time. At least it makes you feel that there’s hope again! Keeping everything crossed for you 🤞💫xx

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Lovemylion in reply toJenRoy

I just feel even more bewildered, emotionally battered and bruised from TTC second time round. I guess there's always hope otherwise we just wouldn't put ourselves through it? Just the odds are not in our favour generally. Just science and a bit of luck. Thank you. You too ❤️ xx

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AN791

Congratulations, it is challenging the next 2 weeks but it’s a positive 2 weeks Wishing you a happy healthy pregnancy 💕

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JudithSS

Congratulations darling! Praying they stick x

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Lana2009

Congratulations!! This is fab news. Almost exactly the same as me too! DE IVF and transferred 2 similar grade embryos in our third transfer. Currently 15w+5 with twins!! 🥰 Try to rest up and relax as much as possible. I know how hard that is… on this journey we’ve been waiting for that BFP and then suddenly a load more waiting and anxiety 🤦🏻‍♀️ Keeping everything crossed for you and hoping for a wonderful pregnancy for you. How would you feel about twins? Xx

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JenRoy in reply toLana2009

Oh wow!! Huge congratulations 🎉. Twins is amazing. Still feeling anxious but had my d13 hCG result yesterday and it’s really good so feeling a bit better. Another blood test today so hopefully it’s rising nicely. Twins would be a shock but a happy one. I guess we’re very aware it was a risk transferring two but hopefully would be worth it. Just praying our little bean(s) are snuggling in and happy in there 🤞🙏

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BettyBe

Congratulations!! 💖

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Lana2009

Yeah twins has been a shock for us too. Just glad it wasn’t more! When she was like oh yeh they both stuck, we’ll just check they haven’t split, I did panic a little. But we feel like if we can get them both here safely then it will be fine. Awww I’m so pleased your Hcg result was good too!! That’s always really reassuring! Keeping everything crossed for you. And keep us updated 💕 Xx

Congratulations 🥳 could there be two little ones in there and not just one?

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JenRoy in reply toPositivechangeplease

It’s definitely a possibility! 😊 But with pretty much no symptoms it’s hard to imagine one in there let alone 2. Just praying for some good news at the scan 🤞🙏xx

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Applepie7

Big Fat Congratulations x

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KML3

Massive congratulations to you. Keep thinking positive x

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Cinderella5

Wishing you all the luck in the world Jen!!🤗🥰🥳😘🤞🏻 Congratulations.xxx

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Riri88

Congratulations 🥰🥰🥰 great lines and I hope the 2nd HCG value’s are good as well today! Good luck with another few weeks wait! They are killing🙈 but hopefully one or two definitely snuggled up well up in there🥰

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