6dpt … I’m feeling wobbly ☹️

[Ladycoco20]

The feeling of letting everyone down if this hasn’t worked is starting to edge in ☹️ Iv been positive on the whole I kinda feel different & my biggest fear is spotting / blood and I haven’t had any 🙏🏽

6dpt very tempted to do a test tm morning … my blood test is Wednesday! Anyone else testing around the same time ?

I keep reminding myself this DE cycle has much better chance of a healthy baby but it’s tough

[Hidden]

Best wishes to you. I understand how you feel. The ivf journey is a tough one but you’re not letting anyone down. Please be kind to yourself xx.

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you 💕🙏🏽

[ClaireB24]

It’s such a horrible feeling, but it’s completely out of your hands what the outcome will be. You’ve done everything you could to be healthy so please try not to put that kind of pressure on yourself. I really hope you get a positive outcome xxx

[Ladycoco20 in reply to ClaireB24]

We are so hard on ourselves I know ☹️ It’s incredibly lonely at times .. thank you 🙏🏽 💕

[Bookbroad]

Hey Ladycoco. I’m testing Wednesday too. Hang on in there if you can as it’ll save a few days of anxiety whether you get a positive or negative reading at this stage. The second half of the 2ww is defo the worst isn’t it! The fear of it failing and taking yourself out of the ‘maybe’ waiting bubble is rough. Good luck xx

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Bookbroad]

Thank you 🙏🏽 Sending you lots of love & strength xxx

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Bookbroad]

Hi lovely how are you ? X

[Bookbroad in reply to Ladycoco20]

Hey lovely. I’m okay. It didn’t work out for us this time around. Pretty gutted but we’ve got a few more Frosties available so know how lucky we are too. How about you? Really hope you got some good news!

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Bookbroad]

So sorry for your loss 😔 look after yourself .. waiting on beta results tm afternoon at the earliest! I’m in a foul mood lol xx

[Bookbroad in reply to Ladycoco20]

A perpetual state of waiting, I'm not surprised you're in a foul mood! Fingers crossed for you.

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Bookbroad]

Thank you 🙏🏽❤️

[Fr_Traveller]

I also got the same feeling right around day 6 on both of my cycles! It's so so hard! But right now you have to let go - everything you could do, you have done, and you've done amazingly well. I would say don't test right now, I find better to only test just before the bloods so to know what I'm getting into, but not before to avoid sending myself in a panic unnecessarily early. Nothing has been decided yet! Sending you strength ❤️

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Fr_Traveller]

It’s all a bloody mind game ! Iv been so calm & positive up until 4am this morning.. I panicked 😱 Sending hope & hugs your way xx thanks for sharing ✨

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Fr_Traveller]

Thank you … Iv read lots of different stories ! We are all in this uncomfortable space at some point .. Warm toast , tea & puppy love today xxx

[KayRays]

I know completely how you feel. Hang on in there, you’ve come this far. Sending you positive vibes xx

[Ladycoco20 in reply to KayRays]

Hi I’m hanging !! Thanks so much xx

[minnesota_girl]

Hi, I'm 3dp5dt and also with a DE embryo ...my test day is Friday. I've purposefully booked to go away for a few days to try and take my mind off it!

Thinking of you, it's a tough time 💗💗

[Ladycoco20 in reply to minnesota_girl]

Hi thanks for sharing… not far behind me ! Wishing you so much luck & strength.. I’m nearly there & also keeping busy in between naps ❤️❤️

[Givemesunshine1]

Hi Ladycoco20 I’m on day 6 after 5 day transfer & I feel the same. I’m petrified of more heartbreak.

It looks like our property chain is falling apart too so we can’t take more disappointment.

How’re u feeling?

Fingers crossed.

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Givemesunshine1]

The days are long !! I had beta done this morning.. don’t think I’ll get results until tm afternoon/ evening 🙄… Feeling so anxious & emotional..

When is your test day ? X

[Givemesunshine1 in reply to Ladycoco20]

Not until next Monday. It feels like such a long time. I’ve got a constant dull ache in my pelvis area. I’m not taking any progesterone so hoping it’s a positive sign but I’m also scared for more heartbreak.

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Givemesunshine1]

The fear is real … no one truly understands unless they are in our shoes .. Iv goggled every single symptom & im so bored of the obsession 🤦🏽‍♀️… just want to know now xx Was yours fet ?

[Givemesunshine1 in reply to Ladycoco20]

Haha I know what you mean- I’ve googled so much I’m not even sure what symptoms I’m having anymore! Ours was natural fet.

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Givemesunshine1]

Hoping it’s a Christmas miracle for us both 🙏🏽

[Littlepeax]

Best of luck to you ❤🥰💫 this journey is crazy tough but you're doing so well. Come on little embie! X

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Littlepeax]

Thank you for your kind words ❤️🙏🏽

[Littlepeax in reply to Ladycoco20]

How did you get on? ❤💫

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Littlepeax]

Clinic I used said results won’t be in until tm lunch time at the earliest 🙄 as if I’m not going loopy lol .. thanks for checking in xx

[Littlepeax in reply to Ladycoco20]

Ahh that's terribly hard and long 🙁 hang in there ❤❤❤ 🙏💫 all the best to you x

[Ladycoco20 in reply to Littlepeax]

Thank you so much ❤️❤️

[molly345]

Did you get your beta results x