Update

[Pittapatta]

So no good. No eggs collected. I ovulated early for 1 and they couldn't get the other one. Was told you consider sex today!! What a joke. 5 cycles and nothing to show.

[Chel91]

So incredibly sorry to hear this lovely! 😥 It's all so frustrating and unfair. Sending you lots of love and hugs xx

[Pittapatta in reply to Chel91]

Thanks Chel91, I kept it very quiet these last 2 rounds so at least I don't have to tell everyone it didn't work. I know I will be fine just not in a great place right now. Outside its hailing and pouring down really heavy, very appropriate to how I feel actually. Anyway I hope all is well with you?

[Chel91 in reply to Pittapatta]

Can totally relate to how you feel hun. I just had another failed FET unfortunately. Not in a good place really, but I'm trying to stay positive. Hopefully luck will find us one day! Will be thinking of you xx

[Pittapatta in reply to Chel91]

Oh no! Really sad for you too!! Big hugs. I think they got it right when they said it's ok to not be ok! (Like you certainly don't feel ok) give yourself time. Me I'm going to buy a chocolate milk and a big packet of salt and vinegar chips, eat/drink the lot without feeling guilty!!

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry, this happened to me last round. It's truly devastating. Take all the time you need to heal. Wish you all the best ❤

[AuroraXen]

Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this. Just awful for you, so disappointing to go through all the injections and scans and have nothing collected. Sadly it isn't so rare, it seems. I don't have any words to make this less disappointing, you've had such a rough ride already 💔😪 Sending lots of love xx

[Pittapatta]

Thanks AuroraXen, yes very sad but not uncommon I guess. Just very hard atm. I want to stay at home, not go to work this week but doubt I can. (I'm a teacher so rounds kids all day) I usually love it but just don't want to leave the house atm. How are you going??

[Hidden]

Eurgh I’m so sorry you must be exhausted physically and mentally xx

[Pittapatta in reply to Hidden]

Thanks Daisy1245, yep feeling a bit sorry for myself atm but given time I will be ok, just sucks right now. I hope your going well!

[FrancyItaly]

Sorry to hear this, it’s heartbreaking 😔 so unfair! I hope soon you will find the strength to try again! Xxx

[Pittapatta in reply to FrancyItaly]

Thanks FrancyItaly, given time am sure will be ok, just not right now. Hope everything is going well for you?🤞🤞

[FrancyItaly in reply to Pittapatta]

I’m ok, just waiting to find out about my FET and what can be done to try avoid another loss… trying to stay positive!

[Pittapatta in reply to FrancyItaly]

HI FrancyItaly, sorry to hear about your miscarriages, must be devastating! Big hugs. I hope that give you some good answers and real solutions to try for next round.

[FrancyItaly in reply to Pittapatta]

Thank you! I hope so xxx

[Lacryacky]

Hey Pittapatta, is exactly what happened to me today. I had two follicles, Er today-nothing to retrieve, they think I ovulated earlier from one follicle and not sure if the other one was empty/ or ovulated as well. Pfff, I could I have had ovulated earlier!? I’m so upset.

[Pittapatta in reply to Lacryacky]

Hi Lacryacky, you poor thing! I totally understand how you feel, it's horrible!! Make sure you ask lots of questions with follow up appointment. If you've had EC before and single trigger and thus time they did double why? What happened to the other follicle? What can they do next time to get timing right? Also I know a bit sensitive but ask about discount as you ovulated early so what can they do? (Not sure if you had to pay for round, my is all self funded so I had to ask, it's expensive ) Take time to heal and hopefully you can try again. Right now you take care of you. Big hugs. Today I go for blood test to confirm not pregnant (did a test this morning negative I hope Im wrong but just have no symptoms)