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Absolutely devastated πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

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The clinic decided to collect only 2 follicles instead of 4… it was agreed to put me sedated … but i was awake during the whole process and felt all the unbearable pain. My hand is all swollen… still cannot fold( it’s 21:00 in the evening now) We opted for ICSI but the embryologist called at 15:30, saying the eggs are not mature enough to insert the sperm… it was a very rough and unexpected experience with my clinic based in Northampton πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

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I'm so sorry sweetie. Last round I had a similar situation. Out of 6 eggs 3 fertilised through ICSI and none made it to day 5. I know how you feel and there's nothing that will make you feel better. Just take your time to cry, scream or just stay still. Infertility is an unpredictable journey. My thoughts go out to you!

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I'm so sorry 😞 both for the pain you suffered during the EC (this shouldn't happen... they really messed up here) and then to have such a disappointing result. On my first cycle I had no fertilisation (2 eggs did fertilise late, but didn't make it to day 5 blastocysts so nothing go transfer). I'll never forget the shock and disappointment of that call - IVF is very cruel sometimes. Hell, most of the time really 😣😭 The shock and sadness will start to ease a bit, I promise, but right now try to do anything you can to look after yourself and your needs xx

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So sorry to hear your news and hope the pain is easing and you can then start to emotionally heal. The IVF rollacoaster is really cruel at times, i’m only in my first cycle of IVF so can’t offer any advice just wanted to say how sorry I was to hear that you had such a bad experience. xx

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Hey, i am sorry for your bad experience, sometimes everything takes a toll

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