First FET: 11dp5dt BFN - still to test on 13dp5dt :(

[lkaney]

Hi all,

I tested this morning at 11dp5dt and BFN I've feel so disappointed with myself and my body. I'm still required to test again on 13dp5dt by my clinic - I know it's probably been asked many times, but just wondered whether any ones' BFN has changed to BFP in that time? I feel like it's a lost cause, but want to cling on for a glimmer of hope until the very end.

This is my first FET (short protocol due to PCOS). I thought I was prepared for the BFN, but I've realised that you are never fully prepared

I do have 6 frozen embabies left, which I'm grateful for, but at this moment in time, I'm crushed.

[katiehopeful81]

Sorry to hear this. I’m currently 2dpFET first ever transfer and it’s the hardest thing ever. I’m really emotional. Hang in there. You will get through this x

[lkaney in reply to katiehopeful81]

Thank you ❤️ It's really mentally tough. Fingers crossed and best wishes to you also❤️

[McQueeny]

All is not lost…. Everything is possible. The OTD is what it is for a reason. But it’s super hard…. As you say, you’re never really prepared and a part of you always believes you’ll get your little miracle and it will work. But hang in there - if it’s not this time, next time hopefully 🙏🤞💪 x

[lkaney in reply to McQueeny]

Thank you - I'm trying to keep positive and distract myself until Monday. But gosh, it's hard 😔.

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi lkaney. Waiting is a nightmare, I know. Keep taking any prescribed medication and test on the day recommended by your clinic. Good luck! Diane