BFN 11dp5dt

[sj482]

So tested this morning - had been so good not testing early but this morning got a BFN. I have too keep taking all my drugs for another week and then test again! In the negative head space of what did I do wrong.

[HemBella]

I'm so sorry. I had a 11dp5dt BFN too this week and I was so convinced that it would be positive this time. And I did everything I was supposed to do. But you cant help but wonder what you did wrong. One of my cats sat on my lap for a few minutes and I wondered if it was too warm! Honestly you can drive yourself crazy wondering what you did wrong.But ultimately whether we believe its a game of numbers or up to a higher power, there's nothing we can do.

Take care of yourself xx

[sj482 in reply to HemBella]

So sorry to hear this. Have you had to stop all your drugs? So tough that for some people it just is all so easy!

[Millbanks]

Hi lovely, sorry to hear about your BFN :(You did nothing wrong - I think with IVF it's often just a numbers game. Hoping next time will be the one for you! x

[sj482 in reply to Millbanks]

Thank you! I hate numbers!!

[Sexy376]

Keep strong and don’t give up I’ve had 7 BFNs it’s a horrible journey x

[sj482 in reply to Sexy376]

I am so sorry to hear this. what stage are you at now?

[TTCWithCHSweetheart]

I had a BFN last week and it truely sucks. Especially when the dr keeps saying they really thought it would work.

We didn’t do anything wrong hun. I put myself through the same stress and thoughts but we really do have to give ourselves time and stop blaming ourselves xxx

[sj482 in reply to TTCWithCHSweetheart]

Our I know Drs being so positive almost gives false hope. I am so sorry for you - what are you going to do as next steps?

[Bexarama83]

Hi SJ. I tested this morning too, 11dp5dt, also BFN. Nurse told me to stop taking meds though. Do you know why you have to continue with your meds and test again? Sorry to hear about your outcome. It’s so hard. X

[sj482 in reply to Bexarama83]

Bex, I am so sorry sending lots of love! I don't know its does seem odd and especially as they seem little pointless now - I also had a major meltdown yesterday - not being able to see family and the drugs and disappointment are really getting to me! I guess it does not help that my sister has three kids (struggled initially then the three came along very quickly) has just spent the last two weeks with my parents as they are a bubble as her youngest is only three months!