Tww for scan

[Hiramunir78]

i got 2100+ HCG at 15dp6dt. today is 17dp6dt now booked for another two weeks wait for the scan. I am super nervous. my heartbeat is so fast. all negative thoughts are coming over my mind. I don't know what should I do? This wait becomes very hard for me.

[Hidden]

Firstly Congratulations on your pregnancy! I can totally relate (as I’m sure a lot of women can here) to the ‘scanxiety’ you are feeling. I had a missed miscarriage after my first IVF transfer and those scans have left a lasting anxiety and fear for future experiences. There’s no quick or easy answer really. It’s a bit like the 2ww for testing for pregnancy, just do what you can to get through that time. Read/watch tv/keep busy/rest just do whatever you need to do to get through each day. Maybe write your feelings down, that’s sometimes helps or see if you can access any counselling in the mean time. It will be really nerve wracking on the day of the scan. Just try to be kind to yourself, try to stay positive and hopeful xx

[Hiramunir78 in reply to Hidden]

most of the time I feel very emotional. sometimes I am angry with my husband and then start crying. these 2 weeks are not easy for me to pass but still, i am trying to keep myself busy. watching series. funny videos. eating. doing slight walk in room. pampering myself.

[Hidden in reply to Hiramunir78]

All totally normal to have those feelings. Sounds like you’ve got some great plans to pass the time. I am learning that the anxiety and worry doesn’t really go away even after a first successful scan, so I’m having to try and learn how to relax and stay positive between each milestone and just be grateful for every day you are pregnant x

[Hiramunir78 in reply to Hidden]

i thought i am not going for 2nd blood test. but today dr office girl told me to go tomorrow for another blood test. now i am double triple scared.

[Hidden in reply to Hiramunir78]

I think generally HCG blood results need to have at least 2 or 3 readings to check the numbers are increasing. Try not to focus too much on the numbers, as it often doesn’t mean a lot, just that they are increasing. I think it’s normal protocol so try not to worry. Try some meditation or mindfulness if you can, there’s lots of free stuff available xx

[Hiramunir78 in reply to Hidden]

I was so relaxed about my beta... I told my husband if it is possible I only go outside for a scan only. because we got 15 stairs to go outside.

[Rihab1 in reply to Hiramunir78]

Same here😔😔this 2 ww is so nerve wrecking😭but I wish everything we suffered turn to massive happiness and blessing for us inshaAllah ❤️