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As the title says really. I'm currently 6dp5dt with a 5BB hatching blasto and a 4BB blasto.

I've been pretty relaxed up until today but I'm currently spiralling and haven't been able to stop crying all morning.

I have absolutely no symptoms whatsoever apart from one tender boob (other one is completely fine, anyone else experienced this?!). I'd have thought I'd start to feel something by now, but not even feeling fatigued, and I've had no cramping or spotting.

I've been naturally pregnant once before but it was a partial molar pregnancy. During this very brief pregnancy, I had a very very strong positive on the day I missed my period, foods tasted strange and I couldn't even touch my boobs they were so sore. From reading apparently molar pregnancies can cause higher HCG levels than usual, which could be why I had such strong symptoms starting off, but it's hard to compare my lack of symptoms this time with when I was last definitely pregnant.

Not sure what the purpose of this post is really, just needed to get it all out of my head and to maybe hear success stories where people had zero symptoms but were still successful who wouldn't mind sharing?

Thank you x

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Luce_16

hello Connie290,

I had absolutely ZERO symptoms and I am currently holding my heathy and wonderful baby.

Given the absence of symptoms, I was convinced the transfer didn’t work to the point I thought to stop medications. Luckily, my husband convinced me to wait testing day and… he was right!

Each pregnancy is different so please try not to compare your previous experience with this. And try not to symptom spotting (I know it’s hard!!!).

Sending you love and baby dust 💙💙

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Connie290 in reply toLuce_16

Thank you so much for your reply ...this is what I needed to read. I've also had a middle of the day nap so I've woken up feeling in a better mood.

Thanks for the good luck, glad you've got your miracle ✨

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Millbanks

Hi lovely,

I had 5 FETs and had alllllll the symptoms under the sun - they were all BFN.

My 6th I didn't have a single symptom, absolutely nothing. Not even the elusive implantation bleed.... I was absolutely floored when it was positive. I didn't even bother to test at home because I couldn't bear to see another negative test.

xx

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Connie290 in reply toMillbanks

Thanks for your reply, this is the kind of reassurance I needed.

Is implantation bleeding pretty common? I also had that with my previous pregnancy, but then because of the issues leading to loss I had loads of on and off bleeding after implantation, so I don't know how reassuring I'd find implantation bleeding this time round!

So glad you got your positive, I've purposely not bought tests yet because I know I'd cave and test early 🤦🏼‍♀️ xx

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Millbanks in reply toConnie290

I think implantation bleeding is not very common - I've certainly never had it...

Haha honestly, testing early is the absolute worst! Well done for holding out xx

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Kitkat10

yes, I had zero symptoms for my BFP. In fact I was so sure it would be BFN, I tested a day early so I could go for a run and get my head together before going back to work. I had no symptoms, absolutely none until 6 weeks at least. Good luck xx 🍀 🍀

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Connie290 in reply toKitkat10

Thanks for your reply, it's so reassuring so many people also don't feel any symptoms, it feels like you're going mad doesn't it! Glad you got your bfp x

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Doodlebug23

I was convinced my 7th transfer had failed. Was all poised to go and buy a vape and then a line appeared on my POAS!! I had the same symptoms as all my failed transfers and my usual period symptoms too. Plus some blood the day before. Hang in there. Good luck!! 🍀

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Connie290 in reply toDoodlebug23

Thanks for your reply. Only 4 more days to go 🤞🏼 x

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Doodlebug23 in reply toConnie290

Got everything crossed for you! Keep us all updated!!!! 🍀

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Connie290 in reply toDoodlebug23

Unfortunately another BFN for me. Hopefully this thread can provide reassurance for other women with no symptoms in their 2ww though xx

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Doodlebug23 in reply toConnie290

Sorry to hear this x

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Megrumpy

I felt morning sickness during my 2 ww which ended in a chemical pregnangy, but only about 2 days of morning sickness during my whole pregnancy with twins and that was far later on in the pregnancy. :D

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Connie290 in reply toMegrumpy

Thanks so much for your reply, you'd definitely expect more symptoms with twins, keeps me hopeful that at least one , but hopefully both of my embryos have stuck!

How did you cope with going on to have twins after infertility? I hope they've both stuck so my whole journey can just be done with as long as everything works out, but two babies is a BIG change xx

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Aramide1

I am going cray as well😭! Tomorrow is OTD and I held off testing throughout the wait (never thought I would pull that off). I don’t feel any symptoms, only one sore boob which is what I feel when period is coming😟, I feel just like my period is about to start but tomorrow is almost here and we’ll know for certain if 1st FET worked or not 🤞🏽

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Connie290 in reply toAramide1

Well done for not testing early! I've still not tested, but only because I refuse to buy a test until the very last minute, otherwise I definitely would have by now!

I've never had just one sore boob before, it's usually all or nothing for me, so this is a new one! I keep prodding them to figure out if the pains lessened in one or grown in the other 😂 pain has definitely lessened though which is now concerning me.

Good luck with testing tomorrow 🤞🏼 x

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Aramide1 in reply toConnie290

It’s the prodding for me as well, I keep pressing them boobs🤣

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Lucyhannah1

I have no symptoms at all with both my successful cycles. The 3 failed ones I have symptoms weirdly 🤷🏻‍♀️ good luck!! X

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Connie290 in reply toLucyhannah1

Thanks so much for your reply, very reassuring you had no symptoms for your successful cycles! Thanks, 4 days left to go ✨ x

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Christianbaby

I had zero symptoms before I tested positive. Good luck! Rooting for you! x

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Connie290 in reply toChristianbaby

Thank you so much, these messages are so helpful for me to read back on every day x

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Titawine

im in the same position, i had one sore boob and now nothing, waiting for beta day and i don’t want to test early 😭

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Connie290 in reply toTitawine

When's your test day? I've got mine on Tuesday and I still feel completely normal. Even my one sore boob has disappeared! I think it's a coping mechanism for me, but I've now completely shut down the possibility that mines going to be positive, trying to stay a little upbeat for my partner's sake though, but it's so hard isn't it xx

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Titawine in reply toConnie290

Unfortunately it was a BFN for me yesterday , I hope you will get a better outcome

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Connie290 in reply toTitawine

BFN for me this morning too. I'm feeling pretty numb, but I think I'd already convinced myself it hadn't worked

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