4dp5dt - worried it’s another fail

[holly1111]

Hi all. This is my first post on here but I’m having a wobble today…

I’m 4days post 5dt it’s my first fet, my fresh transfer failed in April. Not sure why.

I’ve started cramping today and i think I had these same symptoms last time and obviously cus it failed I’m thinking this one has too…

So basically my question is did anybody have the same sort of symptoms in the 2ww with a failed transfer and with a successful one?

I’ve been really positive until today.. I need a boost of hope!!!

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[Hidden]

aaaargggghhhh the 2ww is sooooo hard!! if its any consolation I have had the same cramps and symptoms pregnant and not pregnant so they mean absolutely nothing. Try not to over analyse (hahahaha jokes as if thats possible!!). Masses of luck you have got this ! x

[holly1111 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much. Always so nice to get a response ❤️ Xxx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi holly. Oh dear! Cramps can be sign of an early urine infection, so make sure you drink plenty of water and make sure your urine is nice and pale. if the pain increases and your urine darkens, then speak with your GP for guidance. If you are using pessaries, they can cause cramps and spotting if they irritate your cervix, so just keep an eye on things, and hopefully all will settle down again. Diane

[Panda490]

Hiya, I am 7DP5DT and I'm feeling the same, I was feeling positive up until now and today has been a bad one. It's the worst time, very up and down. Progesterone does make you cramp as well as sore boobs etc. I've seen many women have the same symptoms and be pregnant and also not so try not to zone in on the symptoms too much as they are just from the meds. Many women have said to me you wouldn't have any symptoms of a pregnancy this early on if it was a natural one so that has really helped me forget about symptom spotting etc. Just got to hold out until dreaded OTD. Sending you lots of luck for you OTD 🤞✨

[holly1111 in reply to Panda490]

That is soooo true! Why have I never thought of that before? I need to stop symptom spotting for sure. Thank you so much that’s really helped me ✨💞

[Millbanks]

Hi lovely, it's so hard but try not to think about the symptoms. I've had 5 transfers and all of them have been totally different. I couldn't definitely say that anything is a "sign" that it's worked or not. Try to take it one day at a time and not think about the end.... easier said than done I know! Wishing you lots of luck xx

[NurseMiaMia]

We had our first fresh 5 day transfer and I too, experienced moderate cramping shortly after as if aunt flow was on her way. Definitely thought everything was done and over with at that point. We are currently at 11 weeks. Hang in there and think positive!!