How many FETs did it take for any of you to get pregnant? I have 2 failed FETs now and am wondering how to move forward

[TtcSince2015]

Both embryos were high quality embryos so I am not sure what the issue is at this point... really hoping to hear some good success stories

[shia123]

Hi TtcSince2015 I had FEt transfer at first time and got preg but then miscarriage in 2018 and then again I tried in 2020 March FET and it did worked and I got preg so it does work

[TtcSince2015 in reply to shia123]

Thanks for the positive story ❤️ Best wishes

[Solly-44]

Hi lovely - I also had 2 failed FETs with good embryos, lining etc, no idea why other than 🤷‍♀️ I did a double transfer on my 3rd FET (slightly lower grade embryos) and one stuck. It’s really disheartening but can definitely happen xx

[TtcSince2015 in reply to Solly-44]

Thanks for your positive success story ❤️🙏

[Ivfgotadream]

Took me 4 transfers and 5 embryos x

[TtcSince2015 in reply to Ivfgotadream]

Thanks a million! Congratulations!!!! Xx

[Montgomery2]

Hi I'm in my 2ww. I've had 5 transfers 6 embryos all from the same collection and good quality. I think it all comes down to things we can't control,though I've been blessed with 6 top grade embryos 4 of them haven't worked for no reason at all. We've had our last 2 transferred and we have paid for the recommend extras given by the clinic such as era, Emma/Alice, genetic testing for us all results have returned normal. Basically sometimes there's no reason it's just down to luck xx wishing you the best of luck xx

[TtcSince2015 in reply to Montgomery2]

Best of luck! Sending baby dust your way

[Kookypie in reply to Montgomery2]

Wow best of luck with this transfer! Any tips for getting yourself mentally strong as I find it tough to deal with failure x

[Montgomery2 in reply to Kookypie]

I'm one of those people who deal with things in a black and white way and I see things as it will either work or it won't and there's plenty of other ways to be a mother not just through having my own birth child. Although that's what id prefer xx

[TtcSince2015 in reply to Montgomery2]

Very inspiring, I admire you and send lots of positive energy your way. I am in the same boat and have the same feeling!

[Kookypie]

Yes it's really hard when things fail. I had my embryos genetically tested this time and even a normal embryo didn't result in a pregnancy. But hopefully our time will come soon. It sucks but I guess we just have to ride out the sadness and disappointment x

[TtcSince2015 in reply to Kookypie]

Thanks for sharing, best of luck! Same with us. We have 2 pgs tested fer transfer fails and i have a friend who has 3.

[McQueeny]

First cycle was a freeze all, 2 embryos, 2 FETs, 2 BFN. Second cycle also 2 embryos, BFP ! So it was our third transfer that worked x

[TtcSince2015 in reply to McQueeny]

Hope it is lucky #3 for me

[Kori2]

Took us 2 FETs until we got out positive. I was quite doubtful but it really worked 2nd time round. Both were pretty good grades too but untested

[TtcSince2015 in reply to Kori2]

Amazing! Thanks for sharing!

[Peanutchips]

Third go was the charm for us. Best of luck xxx

[TtcSince2015 in reply to Peanutchips]

Thanks for giving me hope! I have 2 failed FETs already! Will be more optimistic about the 3rd

[Libsie3103]

We had 4 egg collections and 4 transfers. 1st double FET BFN, 2nd fresh transfer BFP but ended in MMC at 8.5 weeks, 3rd transfer was 1 fresh & 1 frozen BFN. 4th FET we did a single transfer and got a BFP, now 26 weeks. Such a tough journey and no explanation for the BFNs but we just kept going! Good luck xx

[TtcSince2015 in reply to Libsie3103]

I admire you! Best wishes and thanks for sharing