BFN on test day 😔

[Jam-master]

So got a negative test this morning. Can’t believe it, it’s just so frustrating when you do everything you can and it still doesn’t matter!

My question is though, I have not bled yet so my clinic said to keep taking meds and test in 2 days. Surely the result couldn’t change in 2 days, there wasn’t even a faint line! Has this ever happened to anyone??

[Murielsmom]

As this is my first transfer, I don’t have any previous experience with testing for FETs.

However, I just wanted to say how sorry I am to read this. I totally understand the disappointment, and the frustration having lost pregnancies and getting constant BFNs. Two more days of continued meds won’t hurt. You never know.

I’m sending you lots of light today. This journey can seem endless....don’t give up 💓.

[Jam-master in reply to Murielsmom]

Thanks, I just don’t know why it won’t work. I’ve had a successful fresh transfer but just don’t seem to be able to get the frozen one to stick!

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Jam-master. So sorry to hear this, but just follow the clinic instructions in case you tested a bit too early. Obviously I do hope that all does turn out OK. Diane

[XOXO13]

So sorry you got a negative test .. 💔

No harm in continuing with the medication for a couple more days .. you never know 🤞🏻

Hopefully your doctors can provide you with some answers as to why it hasn’t worked for you, if you don’t get your positive in two days.

Rest up, be gentle with yourself. Hope you’re giving yourself a lot of TLC 🤍💫 xx

[Jam-master in reply to XOXO13]

Thanks for the reply. I’m hoping they change something to be honest, that’s pretty much 2 failed FET’s. Xx

[Millbanks]

So sorry lovely, it's so devastating :(I would carry on the meds, even though it feels pointless. Sending a big hug xxx