Can worrying/getting upset with a friend in the 2 week wait stop implantation?

[Iwantpregnancy]

Im a bit stressed over today i had a fight with a friend who said to me that if im thinking negative thoughts it could stop my baby implanting and i got so crazy from the way she said it to me, i was texting her loads of stuff like how could u say that to me bla bla and blocked her! Now im scared worrying about bullshit can it have stopped it? Im on day 4 after transfer.

[Hidden]

No, absolutely not. I am on my 3rd round and its been the hardest. I tested early because I was so stressed out, not sleeping and full of anxiety. I was so worried all the stress would affect things but I have been getting positives and my OTD is tomorrow. It's a process full of emotions which our body's are equiped to deal with. Don't be hard on yourself and put the argument out of your mind. Wishing you all the best xx

[Purpledoggy]

Negative thoughts are not going to stop a baby implanting! What a load of nonsense. You sound best rid if that's her way of supporting you, especially as even if she was right she'd be making it worse by stressing you out. Hugs and sending you lots of baby dust for your transfer xx

[Iwantpregnancy in reply to Purpledoggy]

Thx hun she made me so upset i blocked her for good lol shes got some smug theory about how she got her baby after having 2 miscarriages and puts all these "theories" on me. And constantly sends me her baby pics and throws it in my face . What the hell. The weird thing is that she came with me to the eggs retrieval and was very suppotive but last night she really turned nasty

[Iwantpregnancy in reply to Purpledoggy]

She said "babies choose where they want to implant, and they woukdnt want to implant in somebody like you" saying thay im neurotic. absolutely horrific

[Purpledoggy in reply to Iwantpregnancy]

OMG!! That is one of the nastiest things I think they could have said. Her poor baby having to have someone like that as a parent, although having said this this also sounds like she has mental health issues as no one in their right mind would behave in this way. Please rest assured that what she is saying is hogwash and you can absolutely rise above that with your head held high. Try to relax as much as you can over the next couple of weeks. You will inevitably think about it and what I try to do in that situation is imagine my bestie talking me down and think what she would say to me if she was there giving me a cuddle. Be kind to yourself, you got this xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Iwantpregnancy]

OMG, just seen this.....put her right out of our head, she doesn't deserve your friendship or worry....what a cow!!xx

[Iwantpregnancy in reply to Cinderella5]

I know!!!! Completely revolting. I told her take it back now and apologise!!! And she just disappeared like a coward so i blocked her now. Bloody freak she is!!!

[Beanybeanz in reply to Iwantpregnancy]

What on earth! Keep her blocked!!!!!!

[Iwantpregnancy in reply to Beanybeanz]

Lol i know right. People are just sick in the head to say shit like that. Bullies!

[Cinderella5]

Honestly don't panic, I personally don't think it matters what is going on in our heads. We went into our last cycle with no real expectations (in fact I was pretty negative) - it was our 9th transfer. I don't think I honestly believed it could work and previously Ive done all the positive visualisation and that didn't work....well Im now 19 weeks pregnant with twins so for me its nonsense. Hugs.xx

[Peanutchips]

Hey lovely, I had a massive argument with my mum during my 2ww. As in, barely slept one night and cried loads. I think it was all the stress of everything. My single embryo implanted fine. It was a MMC but that was due to it being chromosomal abnormal so would have happened regardless. I understand your worry, as I was worried at the time too. I hope you sort things out with your friend but for now concentrate on you and your lil embryo xxx

[Iwantpregnancy in reply to Peanutchips]

Beautiful thank you xxx