Feeling devastated

[Miaow1975]

I can’t believe I got a BFN at the weekend when all the signs were good and my emotions are doing overtime 🙁 Got a follow up appt with Doc on Thursday and wondered if anyone can advise how quickly you can try again after a failed cycle as we have one more good blastocyst frozen we can try. Thanks for any advice x

[Sas1101]

I'm so sorry Miaow, I know how our heads can go into overdrive 💔 sending you big hugs.

My clinic was happy for me to start my FET following my fresh cycle after once period (not including the withdrawal bleed) so pretty quickly. They said as long as I felt mentally up for it they could see no reason why my body wasn't ready for it. Wishing you all the luck with your frostie 🤞🏻 xx

[Miaow1975 in reply to Sas1101]

Hi Sas

Thanks for your reply and hugs, it’s really helpful to know what to expect before we chat with the doc on Thursday. Can I ask you how long it took for your withdrawal bleed to start once you stopped your meds?

Thanks again xxx

[Sas1101 in reply to Miaow1975]

Yes it's good to be prepared. It took 3 days for the bleeding to start.

I found it was good for me to get stuck into the planning of our next try. Xx

[Miaow1975 in reply to Sas1101]

Thanks again Sas , it’s Definately better to be prepared on all fronts.

Yesterday was very tough but I’m feeling a bit more positive today and think we’ll probably aim to try again with our Frostie in the new year if the doc agrees.

Thanks again for all your support I really appreciate it. Xx

[Ruby201]

Sending hugs as I’m probs in same situ as you as beta test today but no pregnancy symptoms....

[Miaow1975 in reply to Ruby201]

Thanks for your message and hugs and hope your test went well today, keeping everything crossed 🤞🏻for you xx

[Linda84Co]

So sorry, sending you a big hug. It’s really hard to get a negative test after all we go through. Be kind to yourself xx

[Miaow1975]

Thanks for the hug and support. I’m keeping myself busy and trying to stay positive xx

[kc21]

So sorry ! This journey is so crap sometimes ! X

[Miaow1975]

Definately but I’m so glad I found this forum as knowing your not alone and sharing experiences helps you get through.

Thanks for your support x

[Hels1975]

It’s such an journey, sorry it hasn’t worked this time. I know how you feel. Be kind to yourself xx